2006-12-18 05:05:27 · 21 answers · asked by Oeuf 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No people ! I'm a girl, I have a baby. Just wondering what guys think.
2006-12-18 05:11:09 · update #1
I'd go out with her. Why would it matter if she had a baby or not? I'd do something that would include all 3 people. Go for a drive, go to the park etc....
2006-12-18 05:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Joshua 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day, you would be going out with the girl and not baby. It would be ashame to miss out on something that might have a lot of potential, just because she has a child.
2006-12-18 13:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Danru 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you'd be a pretty low person if you did. I cant think of many - if any reasons why this would be an excuse not to. Its just shallow and self absorbed - its the same as asking if you would avoid going out with a bloke for the same reason.
2006-12-18 13:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lau Lau 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my partner had 3 kids when we started to go out, now after 5 years we have 1 together, as long as you tell your new boyfriend you have a child then they will know and can decide what 2 do. the way 2 look at it is that it is there loss if they decide that it is not 4 them
2006-12-18 14:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by truckiechicken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was male then no i wouldn't avoid a woman with a baby however I'm a woman and we cant help that sometimes men leave us holding the baby (so to speak)
2006-12-18 13:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by ann n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were a male,It would depend.Is she a good mother or a hootchie.Does she provide for her child ? Is she mature acting with her baby? Id have to be sure that I would want to have that responsibility .If I could provide and love a ready made family? Many variables in this dynamic.
2006-12-18 13:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Honestly I 'm 22 and i have a little girl and I thought it would b hard for me to date because I thought guys would shy away or think they was getting "some" .....I think you just have to chose guys you know will accept you and your child. Its plenty of good men out here! Good luck
2006-12-18 13:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Funny thing is, a girl would avoid most of you ..if she had a baby!!
2006-12-18 13:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Two Peas 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you had a baby, would you want people to go out with you?
2006-12-18 13:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
This question is going to make me cry..
I am a single mom, not by my choice... Know I know how much that effects my opportunity to find a good, decent man.
Just because we have a child, does not mean we are unworthy.
2006-12-18 13:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Fluffy Rover 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋