If u feel u need to mess up other peoples lives just for some thrill, ur a homewrecker. Whatever the situation is with him and his wife, let them work it out b4 u get in it. Get some self control ladies! If he's willing to cheat on his wife, don't think he won't cheat on you. If u honestly think ur special cause he's coming 2 u for some company, trust me u ain't that special cause all he's getting from u is COMPANY. He going home to his WIFE. Men if u not willing to work on ur marriage, get out b4 u start messing around. Too many stds and things going around 2 to nasty.
2006-12-18 04:57:55 · 18 answers · asked by jambabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not bitter nor did my husband cheat, I posted this because i keep seeing " i'm in love with a married man......." questions so this for all the homewrecking ladies.
2006-12-18 05:17:30 · update #1
yeah, I have to agree (Skankiness) and esp with Jeff K, some men actually give these women money to pay their bills and buy them the things they want.
Just imagine if they have two or three men, honey, they are just "NASTY"... but good don't come to those who do wrong.
Just be careful HPV, HIV, and AIDS is real.
Good Luck
2006-12-18 05:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been friends with women on both sides of this issue. I've known the cheater and the cheated upon.
What I have noticed about the girls who date married men is they usually really hate themselves and think that they only deserve something that they cannot have. They think they are not hurting anyone - it's not their problem. While they are in this relationship they are very indignant - acting like there is nothing wrong with it and all of that. When it B L O W S up (and it always does) they then get some reflection and don't know what they were thinking. They are usually very remorseful.
It's sad isn't it?
Self defeating behavior on everyone's part . The man, his wife and kids, the "other" woman. Everyone loses. Very sad.
2006-12-18 05:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you about that. but most women that i know do it because they don't want to be married, but want that relationship with a man. Where they don't want to cook and clean and slave.See if he is already married then all she has to do is meet him somewhere and they have dinner, sex and play around for a couple of hours, then he goes home and complain to his wife about there problems and how shes spending all the money. And it is wrong because after 5 years of hiding under the bushes she falls in love with him. And tries to ruin his life because he's no going to leave his wife and kids for her. And the wife has to stab this crazy chick. But enough about what i have saw. I think its all wrong and we can't just blame the home-wrecker and the man . Everyone is at fought even the wife. Maybe she's not pleasing her man.
2006-12-18 05:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is your opinion,,if the wife is not taking care of her man then he will find someone who will.....never do i feel like your man is coming to me for company.....the problem is after so many years the wives start to get comfortable and start letting themselves go ,,,it was never my intention to get involved with a married man I did .....never do i think that I am special ..for i know for a fact that I am loved by him he has accepted my children...i spend more time with his daughter and grand kids than his wife does....never do i want a pat on the back...his daughter by the way hooked us up.........so my advice is if you do not want your man going astray take care of home ...
2006-12-18 04:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by my4boyz1234 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women go after married men because they are selfish and have no moral bounderaries. They only want what they want and do care if a family is torn apart or traumatized. They get caught up in their feelings and forget about the reality that they are sleeping with a married man and proably bringing diseases to a innocent women who thinks she is safe and doesn't have to worry about catching anything.
2006-12-18 05:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Please try grammar next time....
and this was not really a question, as much as it was your bitterness trying to shout an opinion.
Please remember that if anything married men are more to blame than the women. They always have a choice.... And no, I have never had anything with a married man, but I believe the blame always lies more with the cheater than anyone else.
2006-12-18 05:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by shaclare 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
These are just freaks who want some, no strings attached sex. Most of the women aren't looking to have a relationship just sex. I do not agree with it but it happens an awful lot. You are one of millions!
2006-12-18 05:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by nattibadboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse would not have veto ability over your social existence. One night out each and every 2 weeks would not sound unreasonable to me, as long as you drink responsibly. you need to communicate this along with her, and be sure you the two understand each and every of the topics. as an occasion, does she sense (properly or no longer) which you're no longer doing all your easy share of the housekeeping or parenting? possibly it may help to artwork out a greater particular affiliation of who does what, or a thank you to take turns with distinctive chores. She won't be giving you finished "credit" for chores which you often do your self, so be sure to checklist them interior the affiliation (in a non-confrontational way, of direction). in case you handle some greater chores, you may get fairly a dividend of goodwill from her. in case you could arise with the money for to hire a purifier to your place, that ought to ease the burden, whether it particularly is one cleansing another week. How does she sense approximately her very own existence? If she's dropping pastime in activities she used to get exhilaration from (consisting of socializing), it particularly is one symptom of melancholy. raising slightly one would properly be difficult and stressful, no rely how plenty you get exhilaration from and love the toddler. She ought to verify she looks after herself by using workout, eating suitable, and getting adequate sleep (if achieveable). She would choose greater time to herself previously she feels waiting to socialise. possibly you could carve out it sluggish for her to do relaxing issues jointly as you watch the toddler. many women get exhilaration from expert massages and facials to loosen up, yet she would choose something else. If she's feeling down, she won't understand how plenty she desires something like this, so she would choose some greater advantageous encouragement. She additionally must be related to 3 form of social community. She would sense remoted, yet no longer have the flexibility to pass out to a bar. in case you think of it particularly is the case, possibly you need to point to 3 of her friends or relatives that she'd in all possibility get exhilaration from a telephone call or a pass to. If she's have been given the blues and would't shake them, she ought to make certain a doctor or counselor to get lower back on the superb music. That is going for you too! stable success.
2016-10-18 11:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree! Women who sleep with married men are tramps. The man is screwing up but the woman is just a loser who can't find a man of her own. They are desperate whhores.
2006-12-18 05:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by hurtand still in love 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to meet the chick that stole your husband and left you bitter
2006-12-18 05:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋