My wonderful husband and I have been married for about 2yrs now. Our marrige is wonderful. Never a dull moment. Sex is out of this world. And we do everything together. I don't want to wake up one day to a boring marrige, so how do you keep it goin(the fire)?????
2006-12-18 04:44:59 · 11 answers · asked by queenofthedam8705 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Buy a taser, and when he least expects it, zap him randomly. The excitement of him not kowing what is going on will keep life exciting for you for years.
And yes, I know this is horrid advice, I'm just trying to lighten my day up.
2006-12-18 05:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by paul_p_25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you won't have that problem. I have been happily married for 6 years, we have been together 8 total. I never would have thought I could love someone as much as i love him. We are happier and more in love now than we were 6 years ago. He gives me compliments more now, and me him too. We are a wonderful team in everything, maybe its been experiences within the last couple years that have brought us closer this way. However, keep it spontaneous sometimes, helps liven things up keeps the dull away. Don't forget to take trips together to new places.
2006-12-18 04:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great question.
I have been with the same girl since I was 19. I'm 42 now. Always remember to date you spouse. Even if you have kids who demand a tremendous amount of your time and energy. Never forget to take time for your spouse. If it's only dinner or just a cup of coffee try to take the time to reflect on your past experiences good and bad and to strive to create new and exciting experiences for future memories to be created.
Be spontaneous and never forget how to play.
Rex Tabb. Cottontown, Tn.
2006-12-18 05:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to die now, this too shall pass. However, the best, quickest and sure fire way to kill off love and sex in a marriage is to have kids. Once you have them, kiss all that love and sex and money good-bye. You will then be part of the real world again. This sort of thing never lasts.
2006-12-18 04:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Arc T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by tonini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be one of those people who like to plan your life from day one. Take it easy. Enjoy what you have. The fire WILL run out someday. And then, you being the big-planner will have to deal with how to find meaning in life without HIM being the central focus. Kids will happen. Problems will happen. But always have something going on for YOURSELF, and you can deal with whatever **** happens.
2006-12-18 04:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you already are. how can it get more exciting than that? keep doing what you're doing, when the time comes that it seems like it's getting boring, then ask the question.
2006-12-18 04:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by southern belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this idea for my man, he loves football, so I'm getting a custom made cheerleader outfit from his favorite team, when he gets home from Iraq I'm gonna pounce on hI'm in it, im even learning to do the splits.
just be creative, ideas will come to you. it depends on your husbands interests and it's difficult to say for someone I've never met.
massages are always appreciated
2006-12-18 04:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maintain the currest relationship and don't think negative. Love truly and it will last forever.
2006-12-18 04:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you're doing. Marriage is what you make & want it to be.
2006-12-18 05:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋