does your spouse check your phone records, emails, etc....
2006-12-18 04:34:45 · 11 answers · asked by SNAP! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope if he did we wouldn't be together; If there's no trust there's no relationship in my eyes; and i've never given any reason not to trust me so for him to go snooping trying to find something to call me out on when there isn't anything... Yea i wouldn't put up with it..
2006-12-18 04:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Lord no, don't believe a word he says. MAYBE its nothing, it could be just talking, but I believed my husband for a long time that it was just talking. There is NO reason for a married man to repeatedly talk to another woman on the phone unless its work related, and NO reason for that kind of friendship -- it can only lead to more. Does he guard & protect his phone like its going to run away? Does he have it locked if it IS laying out? If so that's a bad sign. When he gets in the shower, search for it, and if its unlocked take a peek. If he doesn't know how suspicious you are, maybe if its unlocked he might not think to erase the call history or texts. When a spouse is cheating, they always say its nothing and downplay it as much as they can, hoping you will forget it so they can continue what they are doing. You have to do more investigating! If you share a computer, install a free keylogger, you can do a search online to find them. Even invest in a small digital voice recorder and hide it somewhere you think he uses the phone a lot (you can duct tape it under the seat of his car and set it to record only when there is sound. Keep your eyes SO wide open, and please, do not stop checking that phone record!!! If he changes the password on the account, you can almost be sure that he's doing something he shouldn't be. Just don't go too crazy on him if you want to keep your marriage if he is cheating. It will ony push him farther away from you and closer to her. Keep your cool and your confidence -- never let him see you act desperate. Good luck to you and my heart is right there with you. I've been through this, and its the most difficult thing I've experienced in my 37 years of life. I pray he's telling you the truth, but my experience has made me a skeptic. (And there is nothing wrong with keeping a close eye on your man and NEVER feeling too comfortable to think it could happen)
2016-05-23 04:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughters father did, ALL THE TIME and that relationship turned abusive. My hubby to be does once in awhile and goes through my car and purse sometimes too. I have absolutely nothing to hide but it bothers the hell out of me so much, I guess like he doesn't trust me or something. I've never given him a reason to not trust me. I know he is a tad insecure though because his ex-wife left him for another man. I kind of understand and I deal with it because I love him. No red flags in this relationship like in the last though.
2006-12-18 04:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I check her phone once in awhile. I wouldn't if she wasn't so secretive with her phone. Always clutching on to it for dear life or going into another room to talk with someone. It just makes me wonder if she's hiding anything.
2006-12-18 05:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he feels like he needs to. I don't care, there are going to be moments of insecurity in a marriage, but with understanding and love it will pass.
2006-12-18 04:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes. not the phone records but emails and such. i have kept thing from him in the past so he has reason to do so. i have no problem with it cause i know i deserve it
2006-12-18 04:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by bo.hal 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He doesn't check mine, but I check his, don't really even know why, I trust him completely, I guess I'm just nosy
2006-12-18 04:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by paula_5150 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes! I don't give her a reason to, but she does anyway. I don't mind.
2006-12-18 04:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO we trust each-other
2006-12-18 04:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, he has no reason to
2006-12-18 04:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋