30 years old difference in age between a couple.
will u marry with some one who is 30 years old older than u?
2006-12-18 04:33:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
30 years? that is a big different.
Does it matter? well yes.
Can it work? Maybe
It makes a difference how old you are. The older you are the less it matters.
If you are 20 yrs and he is 50 yrs I would be concerned. If you are 50 and he is 80 then maybe it would not be so bad. but still 30 years is just to much time. You may think you have something in common now but there will come a time when you and he will have such different needs that your marriage will not be what it should be. My advice would be to find someone you can grow old together with.
2006-12-21 09:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend how old are you??? and I would like to know about that. No didn't bother me much. If I truly in love with this person and be with this person that not a plm for me....
But I am 35 my wife is 34 I don't think ages matters because my wife and I been married for 9 years now and have Daughter is 3 and son is 2 and 3rd due in April next year.
Just follow your heart and feel. Some time you have perfect for 4 months something plm sometimes depend on what is it and how couple to solved the plm?? smiling.
2006-12-18 13:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't do that. To each his own in my opinion but I see it everyday. Some old guy looking like he could be a girls dad. Typically the women are very attractive and the guy is all grey and shribbled up. Reason women who are young and attractive go for that is they don't want to make their own way in life. They marry for the money, a man who is already older has had a lifetime to save and own alot more than a younger guy her age. Not to mention hes got money you dont have to worry about working and can sit on your butt all day or go out to the shopping mall.
2006-12-18 12:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Brian J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Think about the health problems that come with aging. Let's say you're 20, he's 50. What happens when you're 50? Would you be that sexually attracted to an 80 year old. And if you were could he keep up and satisfy you. Chances are no.
2006-12-18 12:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the age difference doesn't bother you and if you are in love, don't worry about anyone elses opinion. It is your life. There is nothing that says it is wrong to be married to someone that much older, unless you are still a minor.
2006-12-18 12:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not matter now. When he is ready for retirement, are you gonna want to have kids? Does he want kids when he could be there grandfather? Does he a a load of money? Consider what it will be like going to the nursing home to tend to him while you would rather be out on the town, or is this what you REALLY want, spending his money while he dies of Alznheimers while doing some young stud??
2006-12-18 12:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by Arc T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm currently dating someone who is 17 years older than me. I enjoy his company more than a guy my age. And no age doesn't matter as long as your happy.
2006-12-18 12:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mami-Chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Too many issues there. May work for some people, but not me. My bf is 14 years older than me and I think that's a stretch. But we are very happy, so you just have to do what is right for you.
2006-12-18 12:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe.
Depends on common interests and his respect towards women. Because some older generations may have some ideas.
I think it might be an obstacle, but if you really love each other and if you're both committed to the relationship, it could work.
2006-12-19 10:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a big difference in ages.. but it would really depend on the people. In general, I would find it hard to see that working out..
2006-12-18 12:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋