I'm 15 years old and my dad is driving me crazy. I live with him and I need panies,bras,hair products,clothes that will fit,shoes and more.Now my friend mother gives me all of that and more.I guess what I'm trying to say is that I want to live with my friend.Her mother gets my hair done buys me things and gives me a ride home but when she do that my dad has a fit.What should I do.
2006-12-18 04:32:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Has your friends mom offered you to move in?
2006-12-18 04:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you live with your parents, it isn't always the way you want it. Explain to you father what your needs are and if he refuse then ask him what you are suppose to do about this problem. Really look at what you are asking for and see if there is anything you are being unreasonable about and maybe you two could come to am agreement. I would not move out of your home. It is important to stay with your father. If this is the only area he needs help in then I would try to be understanding. I know it is hard but you are lucky to have a father. Maybe he is doing the best he can. I think you should sit down and have a mature conversation about this and if still not response, maybe your friends mother could have a little discussion with him. Don't worry it will work itself out.
2006-12-18 04:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your dad unable to afford the things you need?
Or are you needing too many things?????
Clarification of that would be helpful in answering...
If your family does not have the finances to buy you the things you need (necessities) then it is time for you to go out and get a job and start helping.
You need to stop whining about what you don't have and go and work for it, to take some of the pressure off your dad.
Of course he throws a fit, he is insulted that you would go to someone for things you want.....
If you are looking for someone to buy you things and spend money on you, then I guess you'd better learn that taking isn't always the best way to solve your problems.
Yous friends Mom should not be doing those things for you .. If she was an aunt or cousin, I could understand it. I think maybe your friend has everything she wants and more.. a bit spoiled by her Mom....
Your problem is your immature and selfish thoughts. Get off your rump and get a job to help out your family.....and buy your own things. You are old enough to be earning your own money and looking after your personal grooming supplies and underwear....
2006-12-18 04:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your dad about needing stuff. Expain you are growing up and need certain things.
Where's your mom?? If she's not in the pic, speak to your friends mom. I don't think moving out is the answer, but at least you have a mother figure in your life. That's a lot more that others.
I am sure she will settle things for you. Maybe your dad just doesnot understand about a growing girl.
2006-12-18 04:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that your father is just a male. What does he know about that stuff. He probably doesn't like the stuff the mom is doing because he might be on a budget and is embaressed that he can't do these things. I think at 15 you can't legal move out. You should check out the age requirement. i do think before it gets that far you really should sit down with your father and talk to him. Remind him that you are growing up and you really need the majority of these things.
2006-12-18 04:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. don't move out because you & who ever takes you in can get into a lot of trouble i'm 16 & I wanted to do the same thing but then I relized how stupid it would be to do that & stayed @ home plus you're just goin 2 end up back there anyways except you'll be in a lot of trouble. Hope this helps.
2006-12-18 04:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you need to move out....
Have you tried having a heart to heart with your father?
You need to tell him that these things are important....
being a single parent is hard. I know because I am one. I really don't think that he might know about what's important to a girl.
Maybe Dad is having a 'fit' because he feels like someone
else is providing for you and he feels jealous.
Tell Dad that the two of you need to talk....good luck!
2006-12-18 04:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Edisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your father about this. U jsut need a female role model and that is what your friends mother is theres nothing wrong with that. I lived at home with both of my parents but my friends mom did the same to me, she just wants to be there for u and be your role model, we all know how uncomforable it is to talk to your dad about bras, panties, etc. but talk to him
2006-12-18 04:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad what is going on, you need most of this stuff, and HE should be providing it for you, it is not fair that an other person has to be responsible for the essentials of life, and sorry you probably will not be able to live with your friend
2006-12-18 04:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your dad about this calmly and seek out the guidance department at your school for some help.
2006-12-18 04:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋