we have a past together but something has brought us back together for some reason.. what do i do?
2006-12-18 04:25:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ask him if he plans to leave his wife for you..if not dump his sorry ***
2006-12-18 04:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Claire t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. The answer is to leave him alone because he's married. That's the end of story. Let me paint this picture for you okay what if he left his wife to be with you and you two married and then some where down the line he met another old friend from the past and hook up with her the same way he did you. My question to you would you like that. Of course not. So don't do it to yourself or his wife. Now if he becomes single and you are still single then take it from there. But for now leave him alone and never tell him especially while he's married that you have feelings for him other than being a friend.
2006-12-18 04:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"something has brought us back together for some reason..." you make it sound as if you have no choice in the matter, as though fate has taken a hand in this, as if you can just ignore your part in this because there is something bigger and more important going on. Get a grip, take responisibility for your decisions, RUN AWAY from this bad situation. Nothing good will come of it.
2006-12-18 04:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you two had a past. The key phrase is HAD A PAST. He moved on with his life and you should do the same although you say you love him you will find someone else. Just walk away and don't look back, if he married someone else that means we wasn't in love with you you deserve better, and you will find the one and it is not him no matter what you think. Good Luck!!
2006-12-18 05:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by gurly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what is the right thing to do. Walk away, you don't want to be involved with a married man, you deserve better, you deserve to be the first lady not the second one! and you are looking for the wrong type of man, you want to be with a man who is faithful.
What is the best case senario, that he leaves his wife and you and him end up together as a couple, right.... well will you be able to ever trust him knowing that he cheated on his wife with you? you deserve better. try change your daily routine, try to keep him away and you will forget him, may be meet another avaible man.Good luck doing the right thing,
2006-12-18 04:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dana N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember a Sienfeld episode where George was dating a girl that had a male roommate. He was upset about the roommate and so had coerced him to move out. When he left, he took all the furniture, as it was his, and also the responsibility of having to support her.
When the roommate left, he left George with a large amount of responsibility that he wasn't sure that he was willing to accept.
Are you sure you want to put yourself in George's shoes...in George's case it was quite simple as there was no marriage or children involved...you however will be taking on much more then that.
Think about it...
2006-12-18 04:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Paul J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good looking out, I am in love with a married woman. She is the one that has brought us back together again, but lucky for me I know what I am going to do.
I am going to tell her that I still love her, and that until I get over it her and I cannot see eachother.
2006-12-18 04:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Run...run fast...run far!!! No matter what he says, he doesn't intend to leave his wife for you or anyone else or he would have done so already. What kind of character does he posess if he is willing to hurt his wife? I certainly hope not the kind of character that you would be attracted to. And what about yourself, don't you respect yourself enough or think you deserve better.
Trust me, honey, been there and done that and done ever intend to go down that road again. They will tell you anything to keep you AND the wife...the best of all worlds.
RUUUUUUNNNNNN!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 04:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Shoe Lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what brought you back together again its wrong, he's married to someone else. If this man can't be true to his wife , what makes you think that he will be true to you. Please remember what goes around comes around too. This man is showing his true colors its up to you to see it for what it is.
2006-12-18 04:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by Priscilla B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn 't do what you doing right now because he is married and if he left his wife and go back with you again... then someone will found out that you causing the plm.... if he not with anyone then Yeah you can see him agian but he is married.
I don't see why you want to see him agian. Also, how would you know he will not do it to you if you went back to him how would you know he wouldn't do that to you and might find better woman than you??? maybe because you making more mooney that his wife?? find out more about yourself and his wife.. smiling.
2006-12-18 05:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!! He's married, regardless of what he says, no matter what past you've HAD, you stay away, that is another woman's husband. Remember, once a cheater, always a cheater. Hey, he's an ex have you forgotten why you gave him up before?? He sounds like a looser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 04:30:32 · answer #11 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋