Hey guys, and girls.?

Question

How well do you get along with your g/f's(or b/f's) friends??

My g/f has this friend who has never met me but seems to hate me. She told my g/f that she should no longer go swimming with me b/c I will try and rape her. She told my g/f that if she spends time alone with me I will break the trust we share.

We have been together for about 2 years
Her friend knows my g/f was raped 6 months ago by two close friends and has been going thru counsling. Her counsler is telling her to stay close to those who wants to help, and I have been trying to help her. Her friend is mad b/c my g/f and I spend more time together than her and her friend.

Why is she saying all this?? I would never ever do this. How many of you would do this to your g/f??(ie-rape/molest her, push her for sex)
How many girls assume that when a guy sees his girl in a $300 bikini, he will rape her?? Why does her friend think this??

Answer 1

Poppycock!! After reading your other questions, I'm confused if you are a guy or girl. Cuz you asked if you should ask a guy out. If you're going to make up stories, make them good. $300 bikini? Pah-Lease!

Answer 2

This sounds like a good example of assuming the worst in some one without really knowing the facts. Never mind the $300 bikini girls have been raped being fully clothed.

Answer 3

her friend is a bit paranoid. although, i can understand that she would be concerned because if two of your girlfriends close friends raped her, she's probably lost her ability to trust guys, however close they are, and she's worried about her friend. try to see it from her friend's point of view: she's worried that her friend will be hurt again. you have to reassure your girlfriend's friend that you would never do such a thing, and that you are trying to help her. when you are in front of her friend, be gentle with your girlfriend so that they can both see that you're not that kind of guy. make your girlfriend feel comfortable with you, and don't pressure her for sex or other physical relations, let her be ready. your girlfriend should tell her friend that she appreciates her being concerned, but that if she can trust you, so can her friend. i hope it works out, and i wish your girlfriend the best in dealing with her traumatic experience.

Answer 4

Well mr. in such a case,you can tell your g/f that she should stop seeing her friend and try to ignore her as she is feeding wrong things into your g/f's mind.Before telling her to stop seeing her you should first meet your g/f's friend and ask why is she saying this!Also try to convince her that she shoudn't say wrong things about you to your g/f.Even while convincing her if situation gets heated up carry on so that she doesn't do anything like that from next time.After that if she still continues then ask your g/f to ignore her and tell her the whole thing that you tried removing the misunderstanding from her mind but she is stubborn and wouldn't listen!

Answer 5

I think that you need to talk to your girlfriend in a sit down serious talk about why you think that her friend is lieing...tell her that you care about her and want to help her in every way...I she really cares about you she will trust you.

Answer 6

she thinks something bad will happen to her again. so she just is worried about your girlfriend so just talk to her and tell her you wont hurt your girlfriend and that you care about your girlfriend and you are being there supporting her.

Answer 7

maybe her friend just is jealous. or maybe your gf. told her something about you and that's why she's saying all this stuff and your gf is going back to you and telling you what he said because she's trying to tell you something.