I have a problem. My husband and I have to split our Christmas day, because. We want to be with my ex daughter in law and our two grandchildren. Plus be with my son and his new girlfriend. Plus we have to find time to be with the girlfriends parents as well. Should I just pack a picnic basket with cold turkey and salads and cart it around with us. It would be nice for the whole bunch of us to sit around a Table for the day. Is this expecting too much?????
2006-12-18 04:23:03 · 8 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no you should try to see if you can get everyone to come to your house for christmas because it will be too hard for you to visit and eat with everyone you need to see. if they all care about you then they will be nice and consider all joining you at your house for christmas.
2006-12-18 04:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See your grandchildren Christmas morning.
See you son, the girlfriend and her parents for dinner Christmas evening.
Then you two spend News Years Eve together just the two of you.
2006-12-18 12:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We had 4 places to be and one day to do it . so we decided to make x mas eve our xmas at home ... open gifts and enjoy eachother then we planned 3 hours at each place and the best cook got dinner time, we explained to all that we had others to see and had limited time, but wanted to spend time with them.
I got luckey finelly after 8 years and the " family x mas got moved to a differant day because everyone started having the same issue, Or invite them all to your place say bring your best dish and lets party! merry xmas enjoy them all, the day may come when they are not here
2006-12-18 12:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can meet with your grandchildren on Christmas eve! instead of doing it all in one day see if you can break it up between 2.
2006-12-18 12:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... ionno about having the son's new girlfriend's parents being part of all the planning. Is that moving a little too fast?
2006-12-18 12:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every odd numbered year I get my kids on christmas eve at 2pm and have them Christmas day til 2pm.Every even year It's 2pm Christmas day til 2pm dayfter
2006-12-18 12:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have lunch with your grandkids and supper with your son and his g/f. That way everyone should be happy.
2006-12-18 12:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home and have them come to you.
2006-12-18 12:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋