I have a friend, "a fake friend" she tells me all this stuff that is not true and when I tell her to keep my secrets she tells everyone. Like on time I told her I like this guy and she said out loud to the guy I like do you like her! I was so pissed! And see gets mad at me for everythin like when she says mean things to me I am suppose to take it and when I say something mean to her she gets mad at me! I hate it she is just like my mom, but my mom is noy a bitchy as her! My mom is not bitchy at all! So what can I do to get her off my back! And should I continue to be her friend or not!
2006-12-18 04:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO. She is just using you. When she needs something she comes to you. And she is giving you attitude about everything? What kind of a friend is that? If you want your whole life to be made public then yeah go ahead be her friend =)...You sound like a nice friend and she sounds like the bitchy type like you said.....I bet thats why a lot of people dont like her! And since you take her **** then thats why she has you around....so...no she doesnt deverve a great friend like you...let someone else take her crap!!
2006-12-18 04:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to take it positively, and this is an opportunity for you to teach someone the goodside of friendship.
If she does like that then you have to teach her slowly, show the goodness and lesson by action not by saying to her. More she hardens her heart, be more kind and helpful, and very soon i'm sure she will understand and she will thank you for the change.
Actually you will give a changed life to her and she will appreciate it very much. Deal with her carefully and be safe always so that you will not be ashamed on any situation because of her. but if she gets the most then try to do a work, which is good in a way that that will put her to shame and she will get the life lesson.
Continue the friendship, pray and ask God help, He will guide you and you will be doing great for her letting her change her life and become a good person. Do not loose this opportunity to do something great in your life.
Mark my word, i have done it and it proved me very much.
2006-12-18 12:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her go. I had many of them in my day and i don't even give them the time of day. I'm not saying leave her out in the cold because you probably have a bond. But just watch what you say and do around her. You no keep you Friends close and you enemies closer. Your so passed her level so get friends who are on your level. And once you do she'll realize what's she is doing and stop. Because she'll want to be your number one friend again. "That's if your other friends don't beat her up , and she decides to leave you alone first". Good Luck...
2006-12-18 12:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by divalicious_ kill_ yourself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sound slike a "TOXIC" friend. Let her go. Time to break off the relationship. You say she is "fake" and lies and tells your secrets. Bad news. Why do you keep her around. Weed out the bad energy (her) and move on, sister. Your life will be so much better without her.
Something like this happened to me and the day I told her I culdn't deal with her selfishness was the best day of my life. :)
2006-12-18 12:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she keeps backstabbing you so I wouldn't say you're friends. Don't tell her stuff if she blabs. If you want her to get off your back just ignore her. If she tries to talk to you, be minimally responsive.
I.e:
Her: Hi.
You: Hi. [keeps doing whatever you were talking.]
Her: Did you see that movie everyone's talking about?
You: No. [keeps doing whatever you were doing.]
That way you're not being nasty, but you aren't engaging her. After a few days of that, just act like she doesn't exist. But seriously ignore her, don't do it to spite her.
2006-12-18 12:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over the kiddy drama and show that you are way more mature than her and you don't need her b/s.
Simple as that. She's not your friend and eventually she'll realize what she lost.
2006-12-18 12:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not deserve your friendship. cut your ties and get someone that you can truly depend on. i have no clue what is wrong with her, but that is not how friends act.
2006-12-18 17:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by chikka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to treat you the way she wants to be treated or you'll play her games and ruin her life.
2006-12-18 12:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by angelicusbeefus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you have to ask! Are you that desperate for friends? Drop her, now. She is not your friend.
2006-12-18 12:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No just tell her to leave you alone.
2006-12-18 12:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋