if you give a women a poem and two cd's for christmas, what is she going to think of you. how will she react

Question

is it true women go for certain types of men such as
1. confident
2.artistic
3.romantic
4.bad boy
5. foreign boy
6.friend

Answer 1

Each person has their own interest, some women will react differently and are attracted to certain thigs. Think about the relationship you have with this person and what do you know they like ot dislike??? Also the person has to feel you regardless of what they like.

Answer 2

I'd say it depends on what the relationship is like. If you just like her and you're not in a relationship, then she might think it's sweet. But if you are in a relationship, then it depends again..are y'all young (like younger than 20?) What are your financial capabilities? Has she said she really wants the cd's you're buying? Just from the information you've given (without specifics) I'd say for a woman to recieve that from her boyfriend, while sweet, today's woman would probably be a bit disappointed. It's sad...but true. Oh by the way...if the woman is your WIFE... plan on sleeping on the couch or in the garage with the dog if that's what you get her. Good Luck!!!

Sure it's true that women go for certain types of men. The ones you listed are all types of men women go for...of course it depends on the woman and what she likes.

Answer 3

I think if the woman knew you didn't have a lot of money, she would be very touched by such a personal gift as a poem and CDs, assuming she liked the music - hopefully you would have found out her musical taste first.

If the guy was loaded, however, she might be a bit disappointed.

It all hinges on the quality of the poem - if it was totally exceptional, maybe even that would be enough, if beautifully presented.

Answer 4

I'm not sure you can categorise who people go for. I think that Hollywood has a lot to do with this bad boy attraction thing. It encourages us to think that bad boys have got there because of hard times and we can mother them into being good. When in fact BAD BOYS stay bad, you can bet if they manifest disrespect and violence in their behaviour then they really are like that. I think the other categories come under individual taste. Attraction is about response to the other person and if you have a special connection or spark. This includes all the senses.

Answer 5

Yes, it's true women go for certain types of men. Many people are going to tell you that "it depends upon the woman", but that's only partly true. What women don't want is a man who's boring. Look at your own list here, none of them are boring yet they are all different.

A woman once told me that every woman wants to have a poem written about her. I don't know if that's true for every woman, but I do think it's true for many. I think your gifts are great, you are obviously a creative and artistic person. Far from boring.

-BD

Answer 6

Heck if any man in this day and age writes a poem to a lady he must be a keeper in my opinion....not ONCE has a man given me a poem lol not sure about the bad boy or friend type though......oh wait i did marry my best friend lol....oh and hes foreign ( american to my scottish)......he does play a lot of musical instruments.......and confident......actually the only thing he aint on that list is a bad boy.

Answer 7

Different women go for different kinds of men.

Generally speaking if you do something romantic for Christmas, one of two things may happen:

1. She's romantically interested in you. This shows that you are also interested, and it's a very nice subtle way of putting it.
2. She's not romantically interested in you, but likes you as a friend. She thinks it's a nice gesture and now thinks you're romantically interested in her.

Answer 8

She will say "Oh, this is very beautiful and nice!!" and then massacre you when laughing about it with her friends. Women are into bad boys, not lovey dovey nice guys. Back hand her and give her a TV dinner, spit on her and tell the b**ch to cook it for you. She will love you forever!! Just kidding! But no that is a very cheesey gift, try jewelry.

Answer 9

yepp, but depnds on the poem, and how long you've known her,
if you guys have been friends for a while, not so much of a problem...
buttt on the other hand, if u meet her a few days ago at bar, maybe not sucha good idea,

and dotn chnage yourself for someone.
just be yourself
im sure your a great guy ;]

Answer 10

It depends on the poem. And the CDs. Are you interested in her? You don't say. How close are you? I personally had rotten taste in men until I met my husband.