my most best friend with benifits has gotten his live in girlfriend pregnant and is mad about it. he hasn't told me yet, but i have been told by one of his family members. why hasn't he told me? he knows i love him and no matter what i'll always be there. we have been together for 11years and i don't understand.
2006-12-18 04:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I probably doesnt want to tell you because he doesnt want the fling to end and he doesnt want your feeling for him to change
2006-12-18 04:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably still SHOCKD that he is going to become a father and is feeling majorly confused/upset/crazy. So he prob hasn't confided in you about it yet cause he is still going through all of those emotions. Just call him up to say, Hey.
Also, the fact taht you guys hook up prob impacts him not telling you. He prob doesn't want you to think he is a slut. LOL.
But yeah just be there for him!
2006-12-18 12:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do realize she got pregnant on purpose to trap him. When you have a "friend with benefits" you are not suppose to get emotionally involved. I am sure he is not emotionally attached to you. When he tells you, what are you going to tell him anyways? You better tell him to marry the girl since he was playing house anyways. Then stop seeing him all together.
2006-12-18 12:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might worry that you wont be keeping up the benefits.
2006-12-18 12:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Annie Oakley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋