Im very happy im gonna be a mommy and i cant wait, but im starting to get nervous. Anyone else out there nervous? This is my first baby and im excited but nervous. I have so mych support and a great guy but deep inside im nervous and worry. Anyone else have these feelings?
2006-12-18 03:32:57 · 12 answers · asked by skw1559 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sweetie, that's completely normal with the first pregnancy, I think all moms feel that way with their first. Good luck, and congrats!
2006-12-18 03:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal to worry and get nervous. This being your first just makes it that much harder. You don't really have any idea what to expect. I will tell you this though...even I am worried and nervous and I have done this before! I also was studying to become a birthing doula and I am armed with all kinds of information...and I am still a bit nervous!
Every woman wants there birthing and baby experience to be perfect and it is in our nature to be afraid that something will go wrong.
All I can say is try and relax...read a lot of books, surf the net, and the discovery channel is wonderful. It might make you feel better to be well informed. Some people may think it is not a good idea to get yourself all worked up over things that probably will not happen....but I know that I would rather be prepared.
The chances of anything going wrong are VERY slim. You should be trying to enjoy your pregnancy and preparing to care for a new little one.
Trust me....your instincts do kick in and you will be fine. Otherwise, those of us who have a house full of children would have stopped at one!
Good luck and Congratulations!
2006-12-18 11:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are completely normal!! Most people are nervous even with their 2nd and 3rd children. Children are lots of responsibility. I worried about raising them right, instilling the right morals and values, and what if I screwed them up? However, 8 years and 3 sons later, I am more confident that yes, I may make mistakes along the way, but as long as I am there for them anytime they need me and they get love and discipline, they will most likely turn out okay.
2006-12-18 11:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by ssstinagail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell u the truth i am not pregnant but i do know how u feel because i have been around a lot of people like that and all i can tell u is that you dont have nothing to worrie about as long as u got a lot of people helping and supporting u then dont worrie about nothing just be the best mom that you can be
2006-12-18 12:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, relax, you are not the only one!! :)
I think every new mom-to-be goes through it! I know I sure did when pregnant with my first. Its a major life change and to get nervous is completely natural.
Congratulations and Good Luck!
2006-12-18 11:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by jzgermany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal mommy to be. It's something you've never done before, and its a big responsibility to take on. But I assure you being a mommy comes naturally after your baby arrives. You will have a lot of support and get lots of advice(so much it will get annoying! :) But right now just remember to eat healthy and take you prenatal viatimins and take care of yourself and you will already be doing a great job as mommy! Take care. And congrats on your little one!!
2006-12-18 11:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Shampaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 5.5 months along with my first... and yeap... about a week ago I started all these "WHAT IF" questions. My hubby and I planned this baby, but I am still a little nervous. I heard it's totally normal... and just so you know, you are not the only one!!!
2006-12-18 11:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am 5 months and 1 week, i too am getting nervous, i hope that i be a great mum. as i been bought up by my dad not knowing how a mother feller. so being a mum for me is the biggest thing that am going though
2006-12-18 11:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam olso toooooooooooo nervous and Iam pregnant for the first time but my Dr. advice me to be relax as possible so try . Good luck
2006-12-18 11:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dodi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens with the first pregnancy, it's like you are very anxious, but that's ok I felt like that with my first child. I'm on the second now, I'm 6months pregnant, but it is a beautiful experience. Congratulations on the baby and good luck.
2006-12-18 11:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋