u want to end it because if u dont it will end in a very bitter way that will leave u lonely ,hurt, and will cost u ur self respect. u are continuing with it because u will still like to have him as a friend
2006-12-18 03:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
accept that there are usually some hard feelings, disappointments, feeling of what if, etc,,,, unless the relationship never mattered much to either person,,,,, its traumatic to end it,,,, the only real exception to this is if you stay together long enough after its not working out, so that you are both relieved for it to be over,,,,,,,,, i would say end it,,,, then give yourselves a break from each other,,,,, then later in the future, if your able to be friends, fine, if your not,,,,, that's normal,,,,, the person may not even end up wanting/or being able , to be just friends,,,,,,,,, dont plan to use the friendship as a crutch,,,, you mention being lonely,,,, dont expect the person to fill that loneliness,, that is very selfish,,,,, plan on finding other things to keep you busy,,,,,
2006-12-18 03:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to be honest about your feelings. Don't wait and sit on them. It sounds like you've made your decision. Do not let the other person think something different. This does not garuntee a friendship after the relationship. A lot of times people will need time to heal. Often after this period is over they can have a friendship again and usually that works better if the other person wasn't lied too or used. Good luck! I've been in this position and it's hard. I've found that sometimes just letting the whole relationship go is the best thing even though it is hard.
2006-12-18 03:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Annie Oakley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control how the other person feels/is going to feel. If that person does not want the relationship to end, or even recognizes that there is a problem, then it may not be possible, at least right away, to stay friends. If you deem the relationship bad for you, then be honest (that is the most important thing and honesty is what may make it possible for you be friends after he gets over being hurt) and as soon as possible!
2006-12-18 03:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lady G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say how u feel and why u don't think it won't work out. And after breaking up, it's best not to talk for a while, let things cool down between u two. Eventually, u'll become friends again, that is if u were friends before u dated, if u weren't friends before dating most likely u won't talk to each other again.
2006-12-22 01:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 10:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually eventually somehow lose contact but it is always best to tell them directly. They'll probably more than likely be hurt and angry because they will see it as rejection so society's general way is to not return phone calls and eventually they will get the message especially when the rest of your friends are talking about the party he didn't get invited to. That will help. Or you could call Shannon Daugherty and let her do it for you.
2006-12-18 03:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a better question...
What do santa clause, the tooth fairy, the easter bunny, and a relationship that came to an end without any hard feelings have in common?
2006-12-18 04:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ilikepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act a bit different than usuall. do things he doesn't like. he will hopefully lose interest. and if he breaks it off, pretend to take it hard, but then later, just be friends.
2006-12-18 03:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it the nicest way possible not mean just express yourself
2006-12-18 03:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by Travis C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want him as a friend you just don't want to look like the bad guy. He'll be better off if you break it off clean.
2006-12-18 03:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋