My best friend and I have been friends since we where 3 years old. We are both now 25. He is a very mean man. I think it has alot to do with the fact that he just got out of divorce from a marriage to his highschool sweetheart. I have tried to do things to cheer him up but he is becoming a burden. The other day we went fishing. While we where on the boat he told me how jealous he was of me. I told him he had no reason to be and that everything would turn around for him soon. He called me a prick and said that good things always happen to "squares" it really hurt my feelings but instead of saying anything to him I've been ignoring him. I've told him time and time again that his actions and attitude are causing people not to want to be around him. He simply responded "u and everyone else can f**k off. He used to be full of life and a very inspiring individual how do I get my friend back! PLEASE HELP! Im worried about the guy.
2006-12-18 03:16:17 · 7 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He mad cuz you took him fishing!
2006-12-18 04:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough one. You and him have been friends for aout 20 years and giving up a friendship thats gone on for so long is something you wouldn't want to do. You have been through everything together: childhood, adolescence, adulthood, marriage, divorce. I don't think he is angry at you, he is just angry at life. Since he just had a messy divorce with a woman he thought he would be with forever, he is un-happy. You are trying your best to be with him but no matter what, I think he's giong to be upset for a while. Your doing the right thing by trying to stand by his side but I think this is a time when he really needs to be alone and think things through. Maybe you should call him (or the next time you see him) try to explain to him that you understand why he's upset and that you will always be there if he needs anything, but at this time, you feel like he needs some alone time. And also I think you should tell him that the things he's saying is hurting your feelings,and it's not fair for him to take his anger out on you. Your his friend, not his punching bag. Good luck.
2006-12-18 03:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He so mad at the world right now. The best thing to do is back off for awhile. Let him hit low for a moment. Sometimes you have to go all the way down in order to come all the way up again.
Believe me, there isn't anything you can do right now to make him happy. Just be there when he's ready to talk and need a friend. Please don't hold his anger against him when do. He will apologize automatic without you saying anything to him, if he's a true friend.
Good Friends are hard to find just as hard as finding a life partner.
Good Luck and Don't Be Mad, Just Be Concern!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 04:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Gail S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is not in a happy space right now and it seems as though he's taking his frustrations out on you. Just leave him alone for a while and don't even think about reconciling with him until he gives you a heartfelt apology. If he asks why you are avoiding him, tell him to remember that he said u and everyone else can fukc off.
2006-12-18 03:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Evoljz_Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 11:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space since that's what he wants. He will come around when he is ready to.
2006-12-18 03:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't have contact with him
2006-12-18 03:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋