There as a girl I use to ask about and now I don't get where we are? Help.?

Question

Theres a girl I go to college with. She has a boyfriend and he knows that I like her. Ever since I told her that I liked her, our friendship has really gotten deep. We tell each other everything and I tell her all the time how I feel about her and give her lots of compliments. Her boyfriend use to tell her that he thinks I am gonna end up sleeping with her. She told me that if that happened, he would dump her and she dosen't want that. She said thats why shes careful around me because she dosen't trust herself. She and her boyfriend argue all the time over the phone. Her boyfriend lives out of the city and she is able to spend some weekends with him(they have sex). She spends more time with me. When she comes over to me and my sisters apartment, she pinches me and plays with my ears, all ok with me. Lately she has been staying at my apartment. She lives at the school dorms and I always ask her to stay at the apartment with my sister and I. She knows I invite her over cause I like her.

She basically knows everything that goes through my head about her and I want to know where I stand with her.

Answer 1

maybe you should back off until she knows what she wants that way you won't get hurt. It sounds like shes torn between you and her boyfriend. I had a chick like that before, mostly it's so hard because it's the unknown to her right? You should ask her what she really wants instead of her toying with your feelings like that.

good luck

Answer 2

It sounds like she likes you too, but she is afraid of losing what she has. They may argue on the phone a lot but it may be different when they are together. She also could be confused about what she wants. The best thing to do may be to just ask her how she feels about you. Find out if you have a chance. Talk to her about what you want and what she wants.

Answer 3

How about asking her?