should i have sex with a guy who is 16 and im 12
2006-12-18 03:04:59 · 16 answers · asked by WAY_to_good_for_you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No you shouldn't. See, for girls, if your a virgin thats special. Don't do it so early in your life at 12 years old! Make love to someone you truly love. You're young and don't know much about love. I'm not telling you this to put you down. I'm telling you this because it's the truth and i want to help you out. No one wants to see someone else suffer. Believe me, my best friend, Lizy. We've known each other for about 5 years. She had sex with some guy name Jose who was 16. She was 14, n they did it without protection. Now, she is 5 months pregnant n her man, Jose, doesn't work at all and has no way of finding a job. Wanted to beat the hell out of him after wat he did to my girl Lizy but, thats her man, and kinda respected him because he insisted on "taking care" of his child and wanted stay with Lizy. Most guys who would be in Jose's shoes would leave Lizy with the baby and not give a damn. God forbid if that ever happens to my little sister. So yea, right now you're too young. What you need to do is enjoy your life right now. Focus on school and passing with good grades. Don't worry, you'll someone who you really love n he'll love you back. Only this time, once you're older, you guys can be able to support one another.
2006-12-18 03:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know its wrong and yet you ask the question anyway? It's very wrong. Do you have any idea what sex even is, let alone what birth control and having a baby is all about? For God's sake, just say no and save the sex for when your older.
2006-12-18 05:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sore what to tell you I had sex with a 16 year old boy when I was 10
2006-12-18 04:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um no! you're too young for that get something else on your mind besides sex you have plenty of time for that. And is he ready to do a little time in the big house? I think not!
2006-12-18 03:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, YOUR 12!
Your still a kid and I really do wish and hope that you have enough sense to realise that sex isn't something you just throw around.You've already answered your own question by admitting that you know that it's not the right thing for you to do.
Don't rush into something like that.
2006-12-18 03:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No No No!! You are far to young to be having sex. You are only twelve, If this guy pressure you say NO. You should not be having sex until you are much much older.You are very young and should be enjoying childhood right now.
2006-12-18 03:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You are way too young to deal with sex and the consequences that go along with it. You have no way of knowing if you will get pregnant even if you are careful. Do yourself a favor and wait.
2006-12-18 03:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You just aren't ready for sex at the age of 12, honey, I'm sorry. Please wait until you are older and can accept all of the responsibilities that having sex incurs.
2006-12-18 03:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT! I waited a year before I had sex with my boyfriend. We didn't do anything but kiss for 7 months. It's best to wait until you find out if you can really trust him. I know I'd kill my little sister if she ever did that.
2006-12-18 03:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't have sex with anyone....you r not ready,your body is not ready .it could be very painful and he would be the only one to get anything from it .the female body is not made to react to sex until you r in your mid 20s...meaning ...to enjoy it and get the full effect. i dont mean that u have to wait until u r n your 20s...just please wait a while longer. you will b glad that you did.
2006-12-18 05:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by justmecat69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋