Hi, i'm a 14 yr old teen girl, i'm really confused, you see, i like this girl in my class she's really beautiful and i just can't stop thinking about her, i get nasty thoughts about her sometimes too. i don't know what to do and i don't know if i'm gay or not, i dress like a boy most often and i've been called boyish by lots of people, and i act a little like a boy too... our school is a boy girl school, and the one i like... is straight... i've told her a few times before about how i feel about her, but in the end i always say it's just a joke. i always get jealous when she talks about her crush or the rest of her friends. i'm going crazy everyday just thinking about this, i want to just tell her but i'm afraid of how she'd react. and i can't talk to anyone about this either cause nobody knows...
2006-12-18 02:43:46 · 2 answers · asked by Rai W 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well, I know it is hard cause i use to have the same problem. You will just have to hang in there and suck it up!! Get close to her, not in a sexual way, and just let her get to know you and you get to know her. Alot of the time with best friends things will happen. Other than that you are just gonna have to follow your heart. And a word of advice, if you choose to tell her you like her, don't say that she is gay, just be like, "I like you and I think you are a beautiful person!!" see what she says.. She might take it as a girl to girl compliment. And mabe she wont, but it is ultimatly your decision to tell her, if you want to.
2006-12-18 02:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww...the little butch dyke is having gurl problems...how cute. Sorry. Anyways, you can either put it behind you or work on building up the courage to tell her how you feel. Time to make a descision. I wish ya the best!
2006-12-18 22:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋