My boyfriend of 3 years already has everything he wants, so I'm thinking of sending him to a spa as his Xmas gift. Should I send him alone? Or should we go together? I'm afraid it won't seem like a "gift" if I'm getting a massage right there with him... I don't want it to seem like it's really for me.
Should I go and have a massage with him, or send him alone?
2006-12-18 02:42:21 · 10 answers · asked by chocolate-drop 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
That is an awesome gift...I did that for my husband one year. We both got manicures and pedicures, too. He LOVED it! I think you should go with him so the two of you can share the experience. (Plus-you get a massage, too) Have a great time!
2006-12-18 02:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by jenn_j04 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some guys, especially ones who are a little hairy, are sketched out by a spa/massage. He will likely feel much more comfortable if you go together, and it won't seem like a gift to yourself.
2006-12-18 02:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by seest12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some spas do couple massages where they teach you how to give each other one. I'd go for it either way, but go together. See if they have a double room so you can be together, or send him alone to one that caters to ONLY MEN...
2006-12-18 02:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by stykk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends how feelings were. Sounds like you still have some for him. And maybe even him, too. I think something simple and not personal may be ok. But it sounds like you two need to talk. Be open and honest with each other. Discuss what needs to be discussed. Tell each other how you really feel. And look at the problems and maybe try again at trying to resolve. You never know what may come of it. It is Xmas! Anything can happen. Good luck!
2016-05-23 04:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how bout giving him a massage your self?
for a guy who has everything in life had already a spa him self but i think its better if you do it.
2006-12-18 02:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by oo00dawn00oo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do guys even go to spas? I don't go to massage parlors unless i'm in asia ;^) it would kind of suck to go to one by yourself especially if you're not into western massages.
2006-12-18 02:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's an awsome idea - have him go alone though so they can give him the "happy ending"
2006-12-18 02:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by franktowers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him alone. Who wants somebody nobody else does?
2006-12-18 02:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, give him Rum.
2006-12-18 03:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay I guess
2006-12-18 02:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by nancy o 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋