I'm a gay male.... I have been out for almost 2 years now... and before that i had a gf for about 8 month... we always held hands and only kissed once.. and it didnt do anything for me.. But when i see one of my girl friends sing or anything i just fall in love with them, is it just their ability to sing or is it that i like girls again? I mean, when i see boobs or anything it doesnt "turn me on". It is just boobs and the other thing. Please help me!!
2006-12-18 02:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It has nothing to do with sex.
2006-12-18 02:28:29 · update #1
You are a gay male. You've been out for almost 2 years. Openly gay, you say you used to have a girlfriend, that is the past. Girls do nothing for you except, when you hear/see them sing that turns you on? That does not mean that you like girls again, it means that you like their singing. Lord sakes, buy a CD and leave the women alone, we are confused enough without having someone like you playing with our emotions.
2006-12-18 02:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by kim_n_orlando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love isn't a gender specific activity. Though we rarely fall in love with someone who's not someone we are physically attracted to, it does happen.
If you aren't physically attracted to women, then it's safe to say your Gay, no bi.
Considering how Bi's are treated by both the straight and gay communities, I can see how you'd be afraid to be bi.
2006-12-18 02:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not bi. If you saw a nice pair of boobs and started drooling, then you can either worry or celebrate, depending on your point of view.
2006-12-18 02:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the way that girls sing, too. But I'm not bi, it just means that you like the way that they sing, that's all! Don't fret! It'll be ok!
2006-12-18 02:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by §~You can't judge me!~§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not just sex. I'm sorry to say but I think you could still try to be straight.
2006-12-18 02:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need personally help go to a doctor.
2006-12-18 03:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋