does it worth to be pretty?

Question

i mean media tells u u must be pretty cuz only if u r like this u will be successful. boys like u much more n u also get lucky... is it true?
i know outfit is very very important dont say no cuz u also judge pple at 1st sight.

Answer 1

Yes, it's worth it. Good looking people attract the best mates, get the best jobs. Have you ever been to the doctor's office and seen the pharmaceutical sales people come in trailing their little bags? You won't see one that's ugly.

It's an evolutionary trait that we share with animals. We are drawn to the best looking possible mates, even though they are not withing our grasp.

If you're ugly, you'd better be really, really smart. And judging from your spelling and grammar, I hope you're pretty...

Answer 2

Remember, the media is selling products, not husbands, wives, familes, love, or happiness. And they sell it by association.
I have seen girls (actually, international models) with so much make up on that I could only wonder what she looked like underneath. That question was the only thing that stayed in my mind, not how hot she looked.
I have seen girls with no make up on who were quite stunning. I have seen a homeless woman who was so regal in her bearing, her plain face and her salt & pepper hair arranged so perfectly for her face that I couldn't take my eyes off of her whenever I saw her on the street. I'll never forget that look and wish I had been older. She impressed the hell out of me!
Being 'just' pretty will get the 'handsome' guy, if just handsome is all you want.
There is someone out there for each of us. Be what makes you happy and that happiness will be seen by every guy you want to attract. Be neat, be clean and keep it simple. And give it time to happen and it will.

Answer 3

There are a lot of amazing people in the world who are not "pretty" by media standards. It takes maturity to see beyond that. Beauty is something that you have to find in a person, it's not always on the outside for everyone to see.

BTW, I reserve judgment on someone until I know them. I may like someones clothes or hairstyle on 1st sight, but that doesn't mean that I like them as a person. I'd have to get to know them 1st!

Answer 4

After deciphering your ingenious code, I say: according to my teenage son, the boys he knows are just interested in "gettin' some" and girls' looks come SECOND!

As for "successful", I don't know what you mean by that, but I'd have to say that MOST guys (of any age) don't give a rat's derriere about THAT! Not 'til they're 35 or so and the bills start piling up! THEN they want a successful wife, no matter what she looks like.

Are men jerks? You tell ME!

Answer 5

to think you have to be "beautiful" to have a good life is shallow thinking and its said by shallow people. some "hott" people are poor and have a shitty life. looks dont matter! and people that think they do dont deserve a damn thing, because there more important sh!t going on in the world than wondering if your "hott" or not. some people really need to get a life.

and if u think im saying this cuz im ugly then your wrong! im not hott and im not ugly either im a decent looking person and my life is somewhat shitty, i have a bomb job working 40 hours a week. my live-in bf is an electrician making damn good money and i barely have enough money to pay rent pay for food and gas. and now thats its x-mas im really doing bad. so looks dont matter. how you live your own life matters!

Answer 6

Well they say it takes people 15 seconds to decide if they like you or not. In 15 sec. you can't judge people on their great personality. I personally think It's about the way a person carries themselves. Do they look fun? look like you can talk to them? or do they look stuck up? unapproachable? I've met pretty people I thought would be annoying and stuck up and weren't and I've meet "ugly" people I thought would be chill but they weren't and vise verse.

Everyone stereotypes. People who say they don't, do. the trick is to realize you are doing it and look past it. So if you see someone pretty they could be just as pretty on the inside or really ugly on the outside. you cannot judge either way.

Answer 7

I don't think it's worth it. I mean look at Hallie Berry and other pretty famous people they have relationship problems and they've been beaten and abused by men because the way they dress and look. Me I don't ware very much make-up at all and it doesn't bother anyone. Don't read the mens comments above they're jerks!! So no it's not worth if you get bf's like them. Just be yourself and smart.

Answer 8

I THINK ALL WOMEN ARE PRETTY IN THEIR OWN WAYS. SOME ARE JUST BLESSSED MORE THAN OTHERS (LIKE MYSELF) LIFE IS EASIER WHEN U ARE PRETTY. U GET AWAY WITH MUCH MORE.

Answer 9

I think it is more important to be grammatically correct and use the spell check than to be attractive physically.

Answer 10

looks ain't every thing in life but if your very looking life will be little bit more easier