Do u all consider texting a girl cheating? My bf finally came back from out of town. He is always talking about how she is nice. Everything was good until he kept texting some girl. He said that the girl is like one of the guys. But I don't care. We can't even go shopping and he is texting her. He wished her a happy b-day even when i did not want him to. Everything she does she has to let him know. When I text him he dosen't text me back that much or that fast. When I did that at the beginning of our relationship he did not like that so I stopped completely b/c je did not like it. Now he is saying that it is ok. No, how I see it, it starts with text messaging, phone calls, sneaking around etc, plus the woman is married. They met at their trainning camp, He let me look at the text messaging, But when he got back all this incoming and outgoing text were deleted, what you all think about that? I told him if he text this girl or call her then we are done!!
2006-12-18 01:56:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
i would definitly tell him it needs to stop or at least tell him there is no need to be texting her so frequently. ask him how he would feel if the situation were reversed? i am sure he would not like it one bit. and if he can't show you the texts than something is obviously going on.
2006-12-18 01:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question, Is he worth the stress? How would he like it if you started sending and receiving text messages from a "homeboy", would it go over so well, not to mention, it makes me wonder if the woman on the other end of the text is sharing her messages with her husband... Things that make you go Hmmmm.....
You should jump ship, if he is so intent on his phone message system,,, he probably won't notice until you send him a message saying "Good bye As*hole" and you should do that quick! Forget the negotiating process, it will do nothing but stress you out more...
Good luck to you but you can do better, I'm sure.
2006-12-18 12:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're completely paranoid. If he's lucky, you'll leave him. You're just driving him away, hon. And ultimatums will get you nowhere.
You can't control who your partner is friends with, so get over it.
2006-12-18 10:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he playing games with you, just like you woman do on us sometimes. A taste of ur own meds! why, u depress?
2006-12-18 10:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by Scouttster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave him, there is more there than he is telling you.
2006-12-18 09:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋