2006-12-18 01:51:18 · 31 answers · asked by ambi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know how old you are, but usually the best suggestion is to either ask them what is wrong, or ignore them in return, don't let them see that it is bothering you at all, and make some new friends who are more mature.
2006-12-18 01:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, acknowledge the time spent socialising with your friends. That being said you better get some sort of return on your investment .. that of time. Objectively analyse why your friends are ignoring you. Can you find an acceptable solution to the problem or is the situation beyond repair? If the problem can be fixed to both parties satisfaction then try mending fences. If not treat this episode as a learning experience and not entirely a waste of time by prospecting for new acquaintances and evaluating their potential as friends, keeping in mind past pitfalls. Remember acquaintances are many friends few. However, each friendship begins from getting acquainted. It is during getting acquainted past experiences with "friend" will guide towards genuine friendship with potential friends. Don't be too desperate to please others or offend them. Just be yourself. If that clicks with some and they can accept you the way you are then forge ahead.
All the best.
2006-12-18 21:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not talk to them instantly, ignore them for like a 1 week and no more. This is called mental strategy. Then, see who makes the first move into explaining themselves. If not a single friend come to aid, you then take the calling into asking what happened. Time will cool down tensions.
2006-12-18 09:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by cinabolic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then its time to get a brand new packet of fresh friends but whatever you did to make the first ones ignore you dont do with these ones.Because I'm running out of packets of friends.Would you like some of 16 friends?Or 9?
2006-12-18 13:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You too ignore them. Find some new friends who will understand your feelings and who would like to share their friendship with you in a true manner.
2006-12-18 09:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by COOL GUY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People ignoring you no matter. You always try to keep contacts. Renew relationship in special occasions. Tell about their good lessons. Automatically you will be remembered by others.
2006-12-21 08:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by sanatan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know.Even I am looking for an answer.Similar thing has just been happening with me too. People say make new friends - it's so difficult when you have old ones. You just cant go and join another bunch of people , they too with be uncomfortable with you. It is a sad situation!!
2006-12-19 13:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by ashu2sinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two simple points: 1) Find other "friends" who won't ignore you. 2) Objectively look at yourself and decide what it is about you that makes people want to ignore you.
2006-12-18 09:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by mormon 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Walk away from them and ignore them.
They'll either get the hint and come back (establishing a new 'pecking order' in this screwed up game called 'life') or they won't.
If they don't you still come out ahead as you've ditched some people that really weren't your friends to begin with and SCORE you still come out on top in the new pecking order.
2006-12-18 09:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by wolf560 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It might help you to take a step back and see if you can recognise any behaviours in yourself that could be pushing people away from you. Self analysis is difficult, but often quite revealing. Good luck!
2006-12-18 09:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋