i dont want to dump him but hes making me paronioied and im having the felling of pulling my hair out reely all ma m8s know im not cheating though what could i do and i dont want to dump him either
2006-12-18 01:44:17 · 17 answers · asked by cuddlyteddy1996 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him, to his face, that you are faithful to him. If he can't accept that, or he doesn't trust you, then you should walk away.
2006-12-18 01:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds insecure and believe me I know how you might be feeling. Unless there is foundation for his believing this it can be really insulting especially when you go out of your way to not make him think something like this. In my case the one I was with was using reverse psychology. They would cheat and come straight to me after wards and ac use me. The accusation was very belittling and even at my age and been through it before it still hurts, it's like they don't think much of who you are as being an honest person. I won't recommend you keep him or dump him, that's a choice you will eventually make for yourself. All this sure does take away from enjoyment of the short time we have here in this life. My wife would ac use me of cheating after we got married and sill 14 years later she would still throw it in my face and it never happened except in her imagination. I finally divorced her because this type of disrespect only gets worse and spills over into other segments of your life, especially how your friends and his will view you and treat you.
2006-12-18 02:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any chance he is cheating on you?
First thing some people do is look for similar behavior when they are doing it themselves. "First to cast the stone in the glass house" and all that good stuff.
I agree, if you have already told him that you are not and he doesn't believe you.
Walk away... he is either cheating on you now or considering it because he thinks you are.
The "trust" in this relationship is gone already, and you should be too sweetie.
2006-12-18 01:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by wolf560 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad though it is, no trust = no relationship. it'll never work without it.
maybe he's been hurt in the past? maybe you've cheated on an ex previously? take those factors ino account before doing or saying what the problem is.
2006-12-18 03:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by ReD eYe ReCoRdS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep being yourself. What's the point in dating someone if you can't trust each other? He should trust you, knowing that you would never cheat on him. Mostly it is his problem that he needs to work out. You just keep doing what you doing and don't worry about it. :)
2006-12-18 01:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by mattyboycommy2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a nasty, manipulative little control freak. I'd be careful with this- WATCH HIM.
He is messing you up, this game is all about control- to make you feel guilty and apologetic.
You need to find a way to get rid of him, in my opinion.
2006-12-18 01:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go listen to some music and ignore it. either that or keep pulling your hair out, go bold and once he dumps you, no other guy will wanna date you.
if i were u i would dump the guy or ask him to change quicktime.
2006-12-18 04:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by Hick K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in order to have a stable relationship you have to have trust. if he can't trust you it will forever be this way. trust me i was in one of these relationships and almost got myself killed. hopefully that's not your case but don't let someone run your life especially if you are being true to him. maybe he has a guilty concience? i don't know but just be careful.
2006-12-18 01:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't dump him, then you will be dealing with this for the rest of your relationship. Then deal with it.
2006-12-18 02:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accuse him of cheating and see how he likes it
2006-12-18 01:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋