I have so many feelings for this guy at work, but the only thing thats stopping me from telling him how I feel is that i have a bf! We flirt and everything at work, right in front of my bf, and he doesnt even notice! my bf is too into this relationship, and he likes me WAY more than i like him! Should i end this, or wait until feelings develop? Cuz i really like this other kid, but i just dont want to hurt my bf? What should I do? Im in desperate need of advice!
2006-12-18 01:24:22 · 7 answers · asked by kassie07 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
You must go with your heart, it will tell you the best time. Nobody can tell you when it is right but your heart will. Good Luck and have a nice Christmas. FOLLOW YOUR HEART.
2006-12-18 01:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I've learned in 54 years is this: If you don't tell this guy you have feelings for him, nothing will change. Life is way too short to wonder "what-if". Tell him how you feel. If you had a "great" relationship with your BF, this wouldn't even be an issue. In love, we all -- at some point -- get hurt. Your "BF" will get over it. You're responsible for your own happiness. Good Luck.
2006-12-18 09:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by flatbedbill 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not feeling it with your bf, then you should end it. No sense waiting around for feelings to develop, as they probably never will ! End it, and start something up with the new guy. But don't rub it under your ex-bf's nose, as that would be very very mean !
2006-12-18 09:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Growl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is going to hurt anyway, that is what break-ups usually do, but I would tell your b/f now before it goes any further, it's probably awful to say, but at least one of you should be happy.
2006-12-18 09:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until feelings develop.
2006-12-18 09:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by KittenKat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a decision who you want - but be honest with your bf.
Good luck.
2006-12-18 09:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have understand about your bf requirements...
2006-12-18 09:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by neela k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋