i think we are just sexually committed..we broke up in d 3RD TIME a yr. ago because of conflicts and now were just fren ONLY..... but is it possible that der is a chance that he loves me too?
2006-12-18 01:10:32 · 14 answers · asked by chris 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Love is love; sex is sex.
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/Love.html
2006-12-18 01:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sofia 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Having a friend with benefits is not always a bad thing as long as you know that thats all that it is! It just means you both are very comfortable with each other and obviously still attracted to each other..does it mean he still loves you..maybe love for you but not in love with you! The only real way your going to find that out is by asking..but be prepared for a let down if he doens't feel the same about you still.
2006-12-19 16:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by MLP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will get it anywhere they can. Sounds like you are willing and he wants to feel good. Be my guest and keep doing it with him. In the end he will find someone he really loves and dump you like a hot potato. In the meantime be sure you don't get pregnant, because he will be nothing more than a sperm donor. If I guy isn't saying "I love you" it is no accident, he just doesn't love you.
2006-12-18 12:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will have to aggree with timestamp..(wtvr). **** buddies are ok but you have to pick the right ones because if you dont then they tend to get attached. Also i think that both of you are just using eachother for sex. I dont know the total sit. but thats the way it sounds.
2006-12-18 11:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are probably still some feelings there, but not enough to make it work.
there is a reason that it didn't work out and he is probably just lonely and thought that you know each other so, go for it.
i would not have sex with him again unless you are prepared to let it just be that and only that....which is hard to do.
take care.
2006-12-18 09:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but it sounds like friends with benefits to me. so don't even waste your time on him look for someone else that will have an actual relationship with you because you deserve better
2006-12-18 15:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by #1dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just be a one night stand for him, depends on what you think you get out of intimacy and what he thinks he gets out of it.
2006-12-18 10:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by --; cookie. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even stress it o k i d that too sometimes with my ex sometimes and i can mean that your still interested or it could man that its just convenient for the two of you
2006-12-18 14:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by cubana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it means that you both still have feelings for each other and that you should maybe try to get back together and work out all your problems with each other. if it doesnt work out then leave it alone.
2006-12-18 09:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL @ "sexually committed".....that's right, that's ALL HE WANTS!!!!!! Doesn't have anything to do with love!
2006-12-18 10:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋