you see, my bestfriend is a boy, and ive known him since the 1st grade, we're in junior high right now, so , we are still the best of friends. he has this girlfriend, and he's madly inlove with this girl, to be honest who isn't that pretty, and believe me she sucks at academics too. One time, when i was strolling in the mall, i saw his gf making out with someone else. wtf is that? i mean! where did she get the nerve to do that? man.!! so, should i tell my bestfriend or not?
2006-12-18 00:52:01 · 22 answers · asked by kireiicutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are in a very sticky situation. you want to be loyal to your best friend, but you dont want to hurt him at the same time.
but, im sure you know what you need to do. If he is really your best friend, you should be able to tell him. Just make sure you tell him what you saw, and dont leave anything out.
it will work out.. and hopefully he will move on to a better girl!
good luck!!
2006-12-18 00:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but maybe someone else could. Did anyone else see her? If you tell him, the girlfriend will say that you are jealous and he will feel like he has to choose between you and her. That will not work out well. Have another friend tell him what they saw. Be prepared for this to be painful.
2006-12-18 01:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by DisIllusioned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said he is your best friend,this is very sensetive. If he believe he will feel shame in front of you because he is a guy. If he dont then you will lost your best friend,even at last he find out you are right he will feel shame to come to you.. Normally guys wont believe, instead they will thought you like them after all... I experienced this before. What you need to do is after he discover what her girl do,you comfort him but still dont let him know you know about this, he will blame you...
2006-12-18 01:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sweety21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely tell him. You are his friend and if she is hurting him and you know about it, you should inform him. Everyone needs to make informed decisions.
Just be prepared for him to get upset with you and possibly not believe you at first. Give him time to accept the truth and face it. Your friendship might be hurt at first, but it will heal.
Take care,
Troy
2006-12-18 01:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not.. tho I would arrainge a way for your bf to catch the cheating skank. The bearer of bad news is often killed (ok not literally but you stand a good chance to lose him as your freind). Plus he may be so blinded by "love" that he won't beleive you.
2006-12-18 00:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes because that's a part of being a best friend, letting them know when something just isn't right and you seen it with your own eyes so it's not he say, she say.
2006-12-18 00:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should but the best is let him learn the truth himself.
I seen alot of so-called best friend turn into enemy because of girlfriend/boyfriend problem.
2006-12-18 00:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by electricgold2002 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy that's tough...because either way you are gonna start some sh t...If it were me I'd tell because you may lose your best friend over not telling.......Explain that you wish you didn't have to tell him this.....but as his friend you felt obligated to do so.....nobody likes the bearer of bad news....but in the end they respect honesty.....tell him and give him his space
2006-12-18 00:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would rather prefer to mind my own business than being involved with other people's love affair. Let him catch them red-handed by himself, otherwise it would be too complicated both to comprehend and to handle. That's my candid opinion for you. Cheers!
2006-12-18 01:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You go to the ugly girlfriend and tell her that you saw her and if she doesnt say something to the boyfriend then you will.
2006-12-18 00:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋