what do bully's feel?

Question

i mean how can they feel anything about anybody, they seem to live without guilt or any feelings towards people. They dont seem to care what they are doing to a person as long as they get some sort of sick enjoyment. I especially dont understand how they can bully someone who hasnt done anything bad to them or their friends. I mean do they go home feeling happy and content that they've ruined another persons life i just dont understand how they can do it. I feel guilty if I accidently insult somebody I obsess over it for ages.

Answer 1

I believe children who bully are all very disturbed, mixed up, emotionally disfunctional individuals, who, I think, just hate themselves so much it spills out over everybody else they feel they can dominate. It's a desperate attempt to get the power and self confidence they somehow know they lack. They are projecting a phony image of everything that, in fact, they are NOT - emotionally strong, secure, self-assured, "in control".
Unfortunately, for the longest time this issue was never even addressed in schools, and mostly parents had no idea. They had no way of even knowing it was happening to their child - or that their child was the bullier. The victims rarely old their parents anything, and certainly the bullies weren't going to. These days there is a very strong awareness of the issue, but it is going to take the concerted vigilence of parents and teachers, and their energetic response when they find this behaviour happening
Unfortunately, there are a lot of people around today, whose childhood bullying was never addressed, and they have turned into equally dysfunctional, and sometimes also much more dangerous, adults. There's a lot of primal survival instinct at work in these situations. Often, when a person just feels helpless and inadequate, he meekly accepts his role as a "wimp" But in others, they act more like a person drowning, who has to lash out and flounder around and fight like hell to keep their heads above water, and somewhere inside their dysfunctional minds, they think that it's their fellow humans who are trying to drown them.

Answer 2

While bullying while at tuition age will also be beautiful disagreeable, it presents a priceless lesson for the truly international to return. When a boy who, confronted with the choices of deleting his internet web page, replacing his type or dwelling with the feedback as an alternative opts to dedicate suicide then he ought to have had extreme individual issues. I endorse that his truly issues have been together with his household lifestyles as a chap with even a tolerable courting together with his moms and dads and siblings could no longer even remember suicide in those occasions. The bullies will have to think no guilt however potentially a few disappointment that this boy mostly has an overly disagreeable house lifestyles.

Answer 3

It is interesting to note but its true that a "Bully" exists almost everywhere, and this includes places like our home, street/colony, school/college, group-of-friends, workplace, and many others. The point I am making here is the existence of a "bully" is a perception. Look at it from two directions. If you were at the receiving end of a "bully's behavior" then you are actually experiencing the role of a "Victim". In real life, we have to get over the "feeling the victim" and learn to handle "Bullys". This could be easy if a "group of friends" discuss it first, and decide to "return the favour :)) " because....some people just need to taught a lesson!.
If you are a "Bully" remember your behavior is unwelcome, and could result in a similar treatment (someday) and you may not like it!!. Remember "Do unto others, what you would want others do to you"

Answer 4

They are so insecure that they have no feelings. They bully others because they want people to know what it feels like. Usually they have been bullied at home by one or both parents and need some counseling but they never get it.

Answer 5

They usually feel very scared - the old saying is true - most bullies are cowards at heart.

If you are being bullied - at school or work (difficult to judge your age) - then go to the people in authority. Get it dealt with.
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Answer 6

they have no hearts and we cant even begin to try and understand what goes through their minds. Don't think about these kinds of stuff coz it will only make you unhappy... Think positive and remember that their a good people out with with good intentions..

Unfortunately we only seem to be hearing of the bad people...

Dont let negative stuff get to you.

Merry Xmas Have a safe new year...

Answer 7

Bullies are very insecure people. My bullies don't like me cause I'm not like them. I'm not a ho, I don't have kids at 17, and I'm not loud, mean, and obnoxious, and don't hate. They have to live with that negativity, you don't. You have a life don't you? Live it.

Answer 8

They are mentally sick people.