one of the killed prostitutes was a member of my family :( unfortunatly i didny like her for what she done but now i feel really guilty! why do people think this is funny and make jokes up about it! it has to be taken seriously! do u think the jokes made up about the murders are funny?
2006-12-18 00:23:15 · 23 answers · asked by natalie g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
anyone who thinks murder is funny needs their heads testing...i am so sorry about your loss and i can understand why you objected to what she was doing...it's dangerous, i feel sad for all of the families who have lost a daughter...laughing at murder is sick...these girls were human beings despite what they did for a living...i posted recently telling people who lived in Ipswich to be careful out there and i still urge anyone, no matter what their profession to be very careful...don't feel guilty about not liking her for what she did, it was not your fault, she made her life the way it was, she was just unfortunate to be one of them poor victims...i hope she rests in peace now...and you, don't feel bad for objecting to something she did, it just proves that you loved her and wanted the best for her....bless you.............x
2006-12-18 01:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you cant help the way you are feeling and you'll feel that way for a long time. The death of a loved one, friend or foe is always sad, it brings home the fact that life is short and some don't value/respect it therefore abuse it. Remember too that people are also very ignorant and have noting better than finding pleasure from someone Else's' - don't take any notice; hold your head high; you've done nothing wrong.
2006-12-18 01:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not right that people make jokes up about it, but unfortunately those that do are heartless unthinking people who wouldnt even care if it was a member of their family. The best thing to do is to just ignore them as best you can. The fact that you didnt really get on with her isnt important, its how you now all pull together as a family for support.
I am so sorry for what this must be doing to your family, just rise above these idiots and carry on with your life.
Justice will be done. This man will be punished for what he has done to all the girls and their families. Its just pure evil.
2006-12-18 00:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you can't expect people to observe social norms in a place where they can remain anonymous.
I remember talking about my mother's stroke just after she had had it in a chatroom once, and getting a comment from someone that they wished my mother would hurry up and die.
Some people probably have a lot of frustrations in their life and try to take it out on others in the only place where they are able to do so without comeback. At least they aren't doing what the killer did - better to see these pathetic individuals writing their so called witty remarks in this setting than out attacking people, I feel.
Try not to take it personally, and please accept my condolences for you loss. Let us all hope the killer is found soon.
2006-12-18 00:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing funny about 5 young girls being murdered, regardless of their 'profession'
The individuals that do find it funny are likely to be immature school kids or complete losers. If people took 5 minutes to think about it, they might realise that these woman don't choose to do that job, its forced onto them by drug and alcohol issues.
We must remember that these women are someone's sisters, mum's, aunties, girlfriends and friends. No one deserves to be killed and dumped in a woods.
2006-12-18 00:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. It is not funny at all, those who think it is funny has no feelings at all.Whether you are a prostitute or not you don't deserve to die that way, you still want to be treated like a lady and with respect. Does not matter if she slept around. Sympathy to you and your family.
2006-12-18 02:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor you no i don't like the jokes that are going round i have seen them you might not like what she did but she was still family threes no need to feel guilty she along with the others didn't deserve this if it helps write her a letter put down all your feelings at this sad time it does help
2006-12-18 05:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really feel for you and your family.i feel that prostitution is degrading but at times these women must feel the need to do this i dont understand why. no matter what we do with our lives it shouldnt be taken away like this, i hope they get this person/s that done this terrible crime and that you all can move on with your lives. an eye for an eye is all i have to say. take care
2006-12-18 02:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by redconway73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its never funy to joke about some dying people like that are just not worth bothering with if you hear someone joke about that just turn a deaf ear once they see your not giving them there 15 minuts of fame anymore they will stop and you have nothing to feel guilty about she made her choice to live that life
2006-12-18 00:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by hallowsevenight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! This is not a laughing matter, by far! My thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time, and I do sincerely hope that they will catch this serial killer very soon. It's such a tragedy for it to happen to anyone, despite their way of living. We are all human, and deserve equal rights!
2006-12-18 02:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋