seven years have pass since we last saw each other. now she's married and has two kids, we find each other again.. we still feel the same way about each other as we did back then, but, shes married. she is planing on leaving her husband so we can beging what we left off... some days i feel bad for doing this to him (his husband) but every time i see her is like the first day we met. do i push forward with this, or let her finish off her marrige on her own, and then be with her?
2006-12-18 00:11:45 · 22 answers · asked by john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she was worth fighting for, she would have waited for you instead of locking down and getting knocked up a couple times.
2006-12-18 00:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you are fighting for a true love? True love is not just about feelings, it is also about justice and order. The woman is married and vowed to live ever after to her man. Get out of their marriage. She made a promise to GOD and her man infront of people do not destroy the lady let her live her life and be a good wife and a mother. Think of injustice you will do to her kids.
Yours is a thing of the past that is the truth. Find a new woman be a good man.
2006-12-18 08:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by theats7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has to deal with her marriage and if she wants to be there or not and she has to do it with out you there. If she decides to leave because its whats best for HER then maybe you can be together. Dont listen to all the judgemental people in here until they walk in your shoes and feel what you feel they have no right to judge anyone.
2006-12-18 08:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by scout1567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
Hey bro!If she really want to leave her husband,then what are u waiting for?Just go for it ok.But she have 2 kids.U must take care of them as your own eyes.Bring back the love,the romance and all the sweet memories that both u left ok!?Wish u a good luck.Bye!
2006-12-18 08:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by amadeus_denis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
IT WILL NOT WORK...................IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON....SHE MOVED ON AND MARRIED AND HAD A BABY.. THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN ENOUGH RIGHT THERE.......DON'T STEP IN THE WAY OF THAT......IT WILL ONLY CAUSE MORE PROBLEMS...DON'T GO BACKWARD IN LIFE..YOU SEE IT DIDN'T WORK THE FIRST TIME..WHY DO YOU THINK IT WILL NOW?..SHE'S YOUR EX RIGHT? SO LET IT STAND LIKE THAT ....IT'S OK TO BE HER FRIEND. ITS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT ...BUT LET IT STAY ON THAT LEVEL... I PROMISE YOU WILL LOVE YOURSELF IN THE LONG RUN..
AND IF IT'S IN DESTINY HANDS AND ITS MEANT FOR YOU TO BE TOGETHER! SO BE IT! BUT FOR NOW LET IT GO ITS JUST LUST>>>>>>>>
2006-12-18 08:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the past but they are the future
they are hiving kids now
what you are
family terminator????
it is your problem
7 years is a long time
what you thought??? she will wait you???
and now you are gong just to break here family ???
even if you both like each other think about the kids they will surely hate some one??
you???here???the father???
think carefully ,you will never forgive yoyr self
2006-12-18 08:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it seem like everyone is so worried about their feelings, and no one is paying attention to their responsibilities and doing what's right vs. what feels right? Those poor kids, if you become involved with this woman again, you better at least treat those kids like gold, because they are going to need it!
2006-12-18 08:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about forgeting her and moving on with yoour life instead of breaking up a family and 2 kids.
Do her and her kids a favor and stay out of her life and move on.
2006-12-18 08:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your still in love why did u get divorced??? i think you should fight but yet not because you guys broke it off and she moved on. now she is just "cheating" on her current husband. its up to her let her decide but let her know how u still feel for her.
2006-12-18 08:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong to fight for true love. but be reasonable. but if you really love her, you would wait for her right? it's better to let her finish off her marriage to her current husband, and then be with her. so no one gets hurt.
that is..if you really feel love...
2006-12-18 09:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by kireiicutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋