There's this neighbor of mine, her name is Syahirah. She's aware of my major crush on this guy, and she tells me to go for him. But behind my back, she spends time with him, flirting and trying to steal him from me. It always happens, such that I refuse to tell her who I like anymore, cuz I know she'll try to steal him from me. I thought she's my friend, but why does she keep trying to ruin my life?I really want to take revenge on her, cuz I really liked the guy she tried to steal from me, but a part of me tells me that I should just ignore her. I'm so muddled up right now..
2006-12-18 00:04:36 · 17 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh ya, I have been sort of avoiding and ignoring her. But she didn't care till now, cuz her other good friend is moving. Now, she texts me asking if I wanna hang. But sometimes I can't be bothered replying her. You see? She treats me like a spare tyre!
2006-12-18 00:43:45 · update #1
Oh ya, I have been sort of avoiding and ignoring her. But she didn't care till now, cuz her other good friend is moving. Now, she texts me asking if I wanna hang. But sometimes I can't be bothered replying her. You see? She treats me like a spare tyre!
2006-12-18 00:43:46 · update #2
I always say never trust ANYONE with your money, your secrets, your car OR your mate. She's proved to be untrustworthy and apparently doesn't even care. It' a game she's playing, that's not funny. Get the guy......lose her.
2006-12-18 00:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As good as revenge sounds, don't stoop to her level. Honestly, if you know she's the problem, then avoid her at all costs. Show her that you're just fine without her. As for this guy, who cares. There are plenty more guys out there.
You know, I had a friend like this in high school. I liked this kid named Vinnie and I told her, and the next day the two were dating. I kicked her to the curb like a bad habit! I suggest you do the same! Good Luck!
2006-12-18 08:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stoop to her level. Revenge only feels good for the moment, but then you have to deal with the fallout.
Stop telling her about the people you like, and spend as little time with her as possible. She isn't the type of person you need around.
2006-12-18 08:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bah don't worry about her, just don't talk to her anymore...normally they get theirs...and besides..if the dude was dumb enough to bite the bait of the greedy neighbor, KNOWING you're trying to holla....then they deserve each other..cause he's just as wrong.
Can't solve a wrong with a wrong..many try, some THINK they are satisfied...but somehow the 'what goes around comes around' makes a large circle...so find your guy...don't introduce, and when he's definitely yours go be friends with her again so the guy can diss the crap out of her .....yea that's vindictive too, but 'unintentionally' :p.
2006-12-18 08:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it would sound good to take revenge, but the truth is, it never really solves anything. Instead, it aggravates and complicates things. If you have someone, and somebody takes him from you, that should prove to you he wasn't really into you. A real man sticks to just one person.
I think you should keep your feelings to yourself, don't tell people you can't trust.
2006-12-18 08:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by oblove15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get revenge. Tell that dude that she just got over an STD.
2006-12-18 08:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Tom Foolery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take revenge, but I think you need to stay away from this girl. Unless she asks you what's wrong - I wouldn't trust her.
2006-12-18 08:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think she is just your neighbor ignore her take your forward find someone you really like and want be with and do not tell her thing about it. also I suggest you to confront her with it tell her.
2006-12-18 08:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by alan m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right ignore those kind of actions from her cause it sounds like she enjoys pissing you off.You are better than revenge .
2006-12-18 08:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go sucka big toe and stay out of your life! dont take revenge, a pathetic tramp like her isnt worth it. just continue with your life. lifes to short to spend time on tamps like her. just dont talk to her and continue on.
2006-12-18 08:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋