How do I find what exactly is going on in my husbands mind as he wont tell me but constantly fight with me?

Answer 1

Don't try to guess what's in someone's mind. Pay attention to what they do, how they are, and then you will see how you need to act.

Answer 2

good luck! ive been trying for the past 3 years of marriage and its just no use, men never tell, and we (woman) will never know exactly but i can help u with something i have found that if u dont bother him and dont even ask anymore its much much easier lesser stress and u dont have to worry about him anymore, just TRUST him, and thats it, he fights with u because of the nagging and questioning but if u lay off him for a while and let things be he will start to open up slowly trust me ive been through this i was constantly questioning and fighting then i said forget this why am i doing this im getting no where only fighting and headaches, so i stopped and became less nagging and stopped asking and hey what do u know he eventually came around now he lets me in on things slowly and talks to me aobut them more, and now our relationship has never been better im so happy! and he is too, so just be patient and everything will be fine

Answer 3

well,don't expect men to talk anytime like we do.Besides,the more u push him to talk the more he'll feel pressured and frustrated.Men need a little time alone every now and then specially if they have a problem or worried about something.maybe u push him to talk during that time,so he might feel agitated and he just blows up..
i suggest that u read books which enlighten u about the psychology of men and how to deal with them such as:Men are from mars..women are from venus
and Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It .
they really helped me alot..good luck

Answer 4

If you don't know how to to know your husband's mind even after marriage, then your marriage is not a successful one. To make it successful, you will have to come closer to his mind, body and his loved ones. Regarding his fighting with you, there is obviously something bothering him constantly and as you said you don't know, there is no trick or tip that can let anyone dig into mind of anyone just like that.

Answer 5

MOST men argue about little things when that is not really the issue, my husband argues about stuff when he's really stressed out about work. I have learned to let him get home relax a bit , have dinner & then ask him how was his day @ work. He lets out all his frustrations about work, we talk about how to deal w/ them & then he seems
to be ok after that. Hope this works for you too & best of
luck .

Answer 6

Time to put your foot down. Tell him you are not a mind reader and you need to know what is bothering him. If he is not prepared to talk to you about it, then you should really consider divorce, because you deserve to be treated with love and respect. Don't put up with this kind of treatment. Either he sorts things out with you, or tell him it's over.

Answer 7

Feed him properly and see what happens. If he does not spill his beans then dont put out much. If he still does not tell you then stop worrying about it as it could be his early commings!

Answer 8

read some phychology books and get therapy(if you can't afford) then reading the books is better or get a divorce if he gets abusive which you should not tolerate under any circumstances

Answer 9

ArAbIaN BeAuTy is right. Stop nagging him and he will slowly start to share more.
Been there, done that, found it out for my self.

Answer 10

See...an intellegent husband listens to his wife immediately..
a fool will listen to his wife after many fights.....

realizing that he has to listen to his wife..there is no way...