I am sending my details to you. I will be highly obliged if you wll reply to me. I am a married person. But I love another girl who is my childhood friend. After four years of my marriaage she told me that she loves me. Now my wife is pregnant,but I really dont like her, but I dont want to spoil her life. We love each other but couldnot able to propose beforee because our parents were against of our marriage. But now she told me that she will not marry any other person. I am also not happy with my wife, because I also love her very much. I tried my level best to forget her, but i cant forget her. She is not eating food and not sleeping from last four years after my marriage. Can you suggest me what to do? Can I give divorce to my wife and maarry to my lover. Or I should forget her
2006-12-17 23:02:11 · 8 answers · asked by prashant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are married with a family , you have obligations now, stick to it
2006-12-17 23:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her, you have a wife and a baby on the way. If she has not eaten or slept in the last 4 years she would be dead. Get your head out of the clouds and remember your vows.
2006-12-17 23:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound very confused. Maybe inmature. IF you felt this way about your wife why did you get her pregnant? I don't know where you are from but in the US you would be paying child support until your hair turns grey or white if you divorced your wife.
2006-12-17 23:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
now that your wife's pregnant you should forget her and get set for a happy family! you should understand your wife, it surely hurts a woman who's carrying a child for an unfaithful husband!Surely love can build with time esp when there's a child is there to brighten your lives, a child is not a burden here.
2006-12-17 23:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you got married you made certain vows. You should not have made those vows unless you prepared to live up to them. You may need counseling. Unless you are prepared to break your vows and mess up your wife's life you are stuck.
2006-12-17 23:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by waltinaw74 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend sound very selfish, i feel bad for your wife, she didn't ask for what you are dealing her, you say you don't want to spoil her life? sorry to late, you are inmature and need counciling, and your friend is a homewreaker, wow she must be something!! hasn't ate or slept in 4 yrs? lol,, MY advice grow up and keep it in your pants....
2006-12-18 00:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have executed all which you will. it particularly is as much as them to return to a type the place to circulate from here. i think Stephen is making plans on staying along with his spouse by using youngster they share. you're youthful suitable now and sometime once you have a newborn of your individual , you will understand that we as mothers and fathers supply up many stuff with a view to confirm our babies, to that end Stephen will supply up ;love and happiness to hitch his youngster's life. a newborn ought to and could continually come previously a spouse or lady chum. i think of your mom could be extra useful off getting out of her depressing dating along with her husband and seek for happiness else the place. Your mom's selection to marry a guy for convenience fairly than love became a large mistake. she in simple terms isn't happy in that dating. She desires to place the previous aside and look to the destiny to locate a guy that she will love with Stephen's morals. Stephen isn't the guy she desires. it particularly is in simple terms too complicated to artwork at this element and she or he won't stay questioning of what would have been. it particularly is time for her to circulate forward and locate somebody to get previous with which will love her and be there for her. the moral of the story is this, you are able to no longer marry somebody to avert being lonely no extra effective than you are able to stay in the previous questioning of what ought to or ought to have been. you need to stay in the present and understand that the previous is the previous and seek for a dating it relatively is outfitted on love and know. whilst your mom famous this , she would be relatively happy. she will accomplish this with a sparkling guy in her life yet no longer with Stephen. that they had their time yet that element is over and in the previous. he's married and has a newborn and is no longer unfastened to love her as she merits. Stuff like that in simple terms occurs in video clips, in the actual international, breaking apart a marriage and a kinfolk won't convey happiness, in simple terms extra problems.So supply your mom some suggestion and walk removed from the situation. it particularly is her selection. life is what you're making of it. She has to make a life for herself and in doing so, she has to locate happiness interior of herself. she won't locate happiness or love till she realizes that she won't place self belief in somebody else to make her happy. you're a physically powerful daughter to objective and help your mom. i desire she realizes what a modern you're. good luck on your study.
2016-10-15 04:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by seabrooks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your childhood friend is a louse....so are you...
2006-12-17 23:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋