2006-12-17 23:01:58 · 8 answers · asked by chatterella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hun i have been there..trust me...this was a fight in our house daily...i got so sick of it that i no longer have any messengers on my computer..it sucks becouse i love to chat..but hey...put your foot down...it is hard to trust again...but if he is just talking and it hasnt went any further..well just leave it at that
2006-12-17 23:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by freesiahigh7814 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he needs to earn your trust back and with him still talking to other women online shows that he doesnt care how you feel and doesnt respect you. Ask him if hes not happy in this marriage, then why is he still there. If he says he is happy with you, then ask why does he talk to them. Its not a friendship he has with these other women, so dont let him use that excuse. Its a form of cheating and can always lead to physical cheating in the future. If he doesnt want to stop doing this, then he doesnt value your marriage. Its your decision to stay or make him leave. I hope he can stop and y'all can work things out.
2006-12-18 07:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tust takes time to build. It is not something that is going to happen over night and you both need to be willing to work on the realationship and the issues that are causing the lack of trust. There is a website ( www.chatcheaters.com ) that you both could look into; it gives advice and tips to stop the online cheat-chatting.
2006-12-18 07:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think the question should be how to make your husband stop from cheating online because only then, you can think of trusting or not trusting him again. If not physically, he is mentally and emotionally flirting and it is not pardonable.
2006-12-18 07:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he only talks to them then no worries and you should trust him..womans thats in an relationship also talks to guys online and nothing more ..and if he loves you and you love him also then the issue about trusting shouldnt be there then.Talk to him about it ..alot of times there is no comunications in an relationship and then this happens ..partner have doubts or not knowing anything about their loved ones
2006-12-18 07:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by sweety4live2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to know why you lost that trust in the relationship, then make amendment, let him know that you have make amendment and do what he loves, he will surely return that trust to you.
2006-12-18 07:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust him. He is probably wanting to do more than talk. Maybe already is.
2006-12-18 07:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicks are preety only from18 to 25 so you can't blame the guy, you were probably preety when you were between the ages of 18-25 and then didn't you hate ugly women, but now maybe you're not as preety as you were before and you can't blame someone fore liking a more attractive and alluring material, if you understand my judgement.
2006-12-18 07:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by Zidane 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋