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Why is it that I am treated with respect by most everyone, but have the most problems with fellow blacks, specifically black Americans? I am black, but of another nationality, maintain the culture/language, but was raised in America. I am (modestly) quite attractive, cultured, intelligent and I am approached and complimented all the time, but usually from other races. Black Americans tend to scrutinize and are rude. I literally treat everyone the same -- what is the reason for this? It hurts.

2006-12-17 23:00:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Other - Cultures & Groups

12 answers

I cannot point to a single reason.

But, generally speaking, the distrust under black people is larger than with 'white' people.
This could be a major factor in how they treat people.

I work in an international environment with people of all colors, nationalities (except siberia, we don`t have someone from there.. yet) and with various religions.
People there are generally more respectful of others, maybe working with different nationalities/cultures/religions opens people up towards others.

Also, the fact that some cultures flock together in groups doesn`t really help much.

The fact that someone is or isn`t attractive usually doesn`t play much of a role, at least that i have been able to find out.

2006-12-17 23:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 0 0

Maybe it's your false sense of grandeur...lol. Kidding. Anyway, I don't have many problems with blacks save the few ignorant imbeciles who would probably pick with anyone. I choose to steer clear of those types. Class and upbringing has everything to do with this. It isn't a race thing, it's a morals thing. You've probably just run into people who were not raised the best and who don't respect social conventions.

Just my guess.

2006-12-18 03:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by 11:11 3 · 0 0

Most American blacks have swallowed the lie that they are less than what they should be, and if you have any culture, and an accent, and appreciate yourself, you are a threat to them. they should remember one thing: If a white person needs blood, they have the same blood types that the rest of us have, so they are very important to everyone, and should appreciate themselves, without being uppity.

2006-12-17 23:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by JOYCE M 3 · 0 0

The society and culture they were brought up in. I basically raised myself so am void of any racism, unlike the people I live around. People generally follow what everyone else does, it's "Society's Will".

2006-12-17 23:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0 0

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2016-12-15 03:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Eleanor Roosevelt the wife of deceased President Frankline Roosevelt said, "No one can hurt you unless you give them the power to." What do you care what some dumb idiot says to you. You know who and what you are and that is just fine

2006-12-17 23:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by devora k 7 · 2 0

Because Black people are THE most prejudice people on the planet. Forget white people they have tried to bend over backwards for them but they just use the system and make it harder for every other nationality to be taken seriously. Blacks are PREJUDICE as hell!

2006-12-17 23:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

People that treat you rude and disrespectfull are the problem not you. It is the old system if I make you be bad/stupid/ugly than I must be good/smart/beautiful. It tells you about them and not about you.
Be good be nice

2006-12-17 23:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Yes you seem nice and deserve to be treated with respect. If someone is not nice to you they are probably just jealous.

2006-12-17 23:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2 0

i hate to say it but if ur cultured they probly feel intimadated by u or they tink ur boogie

2006-12-18 00:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by makedarad22 3 · 0 0

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