best revenge on a cheating x ?

Question

AFTER FINDING OUT MY XBF was cheating with a married friend of mine ,(22 yrs married,!18yrs friend)!!!!!! they sent ma a txt to tell me ////i did his car over ,,, put sugar in the tank .. attacked all the wires i could find with cutters .super glued all possible locks an the like . an then scratched paint work .. , car written off . i got a hundred pound fine so well woth it ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Answer 1

In my former marriage of 10 yrs (jerk left me for my former- secretary) this is what I did...
#1 I closed out our joint bank-account-opened one in my own name.
#2 I sent the new GF an HIV+ notice. I had access to the medical blank slips---I typed it all out nice and pretty and forwarded the HIV+ to her mailing address in an official looking medical envelope.
#3 He was a couch potato---running and illegal code box that received all the channels. I called HBO---and the different cable companies around and you know ----THEY SHOT THAT BOX from the sky---and fried it!
#4 I obtained religious tracts from a local church regarding information and the relgious stand on adultery---I forwarded the tracts to this woman for at least 2 weeks---so she received usally 1-10 tracts in each envelope on adultery, sin, lust, fornications etc.
#5 he was a felon ---hmmm he just so happened to have fire-arms in his possession too----I notified the POLICE and also ATF---( i did this after I left and had filed for divorce)----

I never got any fines but the feeling of relief and success and accomplishment to achieve what I did do was PRICELESS---I have no remorse for doing these things either.

We've been divorced since 1992 ---and to this day he's still in hiding LOL

Answer 2

Best revenge.........start looking good be seen enjoying your self when you feel great and look confidants flows out and that will be revenge the more you want to do something bad the more he wins because you are still thinking of him in a good or bad light he is being thought of not good huh don't let him see you are bothered about him get up sort ya self out and show him what he is missing reason why i sat this is because i done the revenge bit and in the end i was still unhappy when i sorted my self out and looked the business my x wanted me back but he was to late

good luck
respect
shaz

Answer 3

Best revenge on cheating?! Exactly the opposite of what you did. Showing them both, no matter how unbelievably hard it feels, that you don't care and that you can get on with your life. Show them that you are the better person in all this. Get a new image, look fabulous and get yourself a gorgeous man, even if he's just for show!!! Wrecking a car just shows your slightly psycho and that you care. You sank the their level. The insurance will cover the damage and you got a fine yourself and probably some sort of criminal record?!

Answer 4

When someone you love does such a thing, they are just a different type of "bully". And the best thing you can do to really tick off a bully is to not give them the gratification that you are miserable.

Be happy, go out and enjoy YOUR life! Show them that you could care less about their sorry arses! It will drive them bonkers, and that's the BEST revenge you could ever get!

Answer 5

best revenge is to never speak to him again , do well in life, let him see u happy on the arms of another. hurting others for any reason is not good, as does it change a thing, are we any less hurt over what they did to us. may feel good for a minute or so, but revenge does not bring happiness. they could come back on u sometime in your future and do the same to u. just shows ignorance and immaturity, and solves nothing, as sometime in your life it will come back to u for this, so revenge is hardly ever worth it, when u consider a thing they call karma.

Answer 6

Revenge is one thing to damage and destroy personal things. The best revenge is not to talk, speak or communicate with your ex or your friend. Legally, he could prosecute you for damages, that you would have to pay. I understand your pain. When you think of the time you spent keeping the relationship alive and to learn he is devoting his time elsewhere, it hurts. Pull yourself together. There are men out there who will and can appreciate you as a person.

Answer 7

i do understand how you must feel. but sweetie, attacking doesn't get the feeling inside resoluved. i know that you were hurt and can completley understand that, but each time we attack all it does is cause others to attack us. if we stop attacking and allow things to work out the way they are suppose to be, then we will not be invouled in the cause and effect thing. i belive in "what goes around comes around" seen it to many of times. step aside and just see what will happen to these who harm others. letting go of pain and anger may appear to be hard, and sometimes it is, but when you do, you will feel much better. as long as you keep trying to hurt those that have seem to hurt you, you will carry that pain and anger with you always..get on with your life and don't let what others effect your happiness..blessing

Answer 8

See, all you had to do was walk away and let them be, now because you chose to act this way there are consequences, remember there is always another bus that will come along to put the other buses in the past. Move on.

Answer 9

my dear sister, the opposite of love is not hatred, it's indifference. Move on with your life gracefully, turn your energy into something valuable and positive to you (not negative to them).

I'm sorry for what happened. But life is too short to spend on taking a revenge. Take this opportunity to lead a new life.

Best wishes.

Answer 10

i think this revenge of yours was extremely stupid. smart woman would do smth which would make them both suffer. damaging car isn't gonna do anything - u can always buy another one. mind and soul re damaged forever. this what u should go fo. but of course , for that u have to have brains. which i doubt u have after that "revenge" of yours. this was no revenge - u gave them pleasure in knowing u re suffering from what they did to u. so u lost anyway