I think I want to prove the stereo types wrong that all gays a femmy and girlie so every since i was a lil fruity 12 yearold i've became the master or acting butch now most people cant even tell im gay or if i tell them im bi they are shocked and say but you act like a guy thats weird and there more excepting i think I do it juss to prove a point but in the inside im actually really fem. I know more about desighner clothes handbags and fashion ore than anyone im obbssed with high fashion european style I secretly learned how to do hair with a life size dool head. have any of you fems ever tried to conceal who you really are the way you act juss to fit in. Do you think what im doing is totally wrong.
2006-12-17 22:36:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's amazing you secretly taught yourself to do hair and you can't learn to FREAKING SPELL?????
Why don't you secretly learn English?
2006-12-17 23:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Noone on this can tell you whats right and wrong. Youa re a grown man and decide what rght for yo. ALl I can say is that I myself would be in constant straight mode just to pleas others or to disprove a stereotype. Be yourself your to old for what people really think. I do on the other hand believe that it is important to remain a certain level of secrecy in the work place. Professionally I wouldnt turn on the flame, noone should know or even guess who or what you do when you leave work. There is a time and a place I feel. When Im with my str8's I am a much calmer version of myself, but when Im with the Gays I turn up the flame just a little... Just be yourself.
2006-12-17 23:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm on the fence approximately this stereotype. I mean, i think of mean tend to think of roughly intercourse lots (no longer all, yet a number of them and a few I met) and that i think of it relatively is by using effects that men do no longer ought to go through and the lady has to hold a newborn for 9 months. yet having suggested that, females think of roughly intercourse in step with probability even extra effective than men do, so it particularly is the two genders. And in the adventure that your lady chum left you by using fact of what others have been telling then you definitely she wasn't nicely worth it. I mean who needs a woman chum to the place she will have faith others previously her own boyfriend. Like her chum may be jealous which you're transforming into rid of her time along with her chum, so what if she lied and suggested she considered you with yet another female whilst it wasn't actual. Then your lady chum left you for no obvious reason. So stay the form you're do no longer substitute for anybody, yet whilst a your gf believes others previously then you definitely she isn't nicely worth it.
2016-10-15 04:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by seabrooks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out what you really want before you decide. Do you want to display on the outside what you are on the inside, and liberate the inner you? Or do you want to be accepted by majority of the people? When you discover what you really want, you can answer your own question.
At the risk of sounding like Yoda, "Inside you'll find, the answer you seek."
2006-12-17 23:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can understand wanting to disprove stereotypes but it is not your responsibility. i would think that you would be happier being your self
2006-12-18 04:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by joe s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, who are these people who cant ecept you that you think you must be friends with? Be yourself if they dont like it its their problem.
2006-12-17 23:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry...
2006-12-17 22:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋