2006-12-17 22:34:31 · 36 answers · asked by picks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should marry for love, but money helps.
2006-12-17 22:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Marry the person u love,provided see whether he is capable of maintaining a family on his own earnings.
Money cannot buy the happiness of life,but it is important to have money which is sufficient enough to lead a respectable living.
Marrige is a journey of Life with a parner who shares and supports.Life becomes successful only when a person is happy and free to communicate his or her feelings and also understand and support one and other at times of need not only sex but in all walks of life.
2006-12-18 01:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are telling you to marry a man with money, and you love a man without money. There presently is no man with money, so finding one is wishful thinking, anyway. Go with love, and do your job as a woman and turn him into a man with money. Every great man has a greater woman supporting him.
2006-12-17 23:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never marry for $$$ if the person who has $$$ is in LOVE WITH YOU and you he the marriage would work ---but if you marry for $$$$ and there is no love----the marriage will fail.
Sometimes you have to listen to what your heart is telling you. I know you love your parents and all that but marrying for the wrong reason other than LOVE would be disastrous.
If the man with $$$$ is smart he would have you sign a pre-nuptial agreement---YOU would gain zip financially and your parents ideology of $$$$ and financial gain would be thrown right out the window!
2006-12-17 22:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should marry the man you love not the man with money! for you to have a happy married life, follow what does your heart says. don't mind your parents let yourself decide whom to marry because you are the one who will live with the guy not your parents!!!. you will suffer if you're going to marry a man whom you don't love. love is the most important thing that can make a person very happy. remember that it is the love of God that saves us. good day and don't be confused. just pray and your prayer will be answered.
2006-12-17 22:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u should marry the one who loves u more than money or anything else in world and that will be the person to whom u love the most...........
So just explain ur parents about ur love and tell them u will be happy with the person u love n not with the person who have money........and if they don't understand u then take ur own decision in which u can live better and happy life(i.e after marrying ur loved one)
2006-12-17 23:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by pearly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is the one you love cheap,lazy.or selfish.or does he share what little he has openly and freely with you?If he is broke and cheap,do you want to support he and you both?A guy can be broke,but still give to you.A guy who loves you would give you the world and find a way to let you know it.Does the one you love,feel the same about you,or is he the one you wished wanted you like you want him?Ask yourself all these questions,and if you can say with all your heart they are pleasant and honest answers,then it is not about money,but what you have with guy is reciprocal and not a far off wish,you by all means get to chose.Unless you are from culture that arranges marraiges,it's your choice anyway.
PS-If the man w/ money loves you and the other does not,have an open mind-but only if he is a generous spirit.Man with money means nothing if he knows not how to share it,,and some don't..
2006-12-17 22:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If u marry the one with money, and then afer sleepin with him for so many nights, u think "if he was there instead of him..." then no money can bring him at that place in that position, its a matter of two lives, better stop askin ppl, and start askin urself, what will happen in long run if money fails 2 satisfy u, but u r assured the one u love will statisfy...,
2006-12-17 23:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kinshuk M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Money is good and all when you are going shopping,but love is more important,if you don't really love the guy it is not going to work out after a while and then the money is not going to be there anyway,because he is going to be gone,because the relationship is not going to work without the real love,so go get the one you love and he loves you and go from there,if that's what you really feel for this guy.
2006-12-17 22:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
marry the one with money. love can be build up through little details which happens everyday. love grows with time . if there's love but no money, the once happy marriage will turn awful as the couple will soon be facing financial problems which will cause many disputes and unhappiness! And love is always blind , when ya in love you can't see what's actually in front of you.
2006-12-17 22:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋