My wife and I have been together for 3 years now but married for 1.
She tells me shes loves me, misses me but she doesn't wanna come back home. She gets mad if she think i'm talking to another girl and then she goes to parties and stuff so what am I supposed to do? I wanna be with her but she acts like she doesn't even care..Someone please give me advice on what's going on here.Then she tells me that she doesn't wanna be with me and hates me one minute then she loves me the next..She gets mad if I don't call her and when I don't call her she calls me..What should I do?
2006-12-17 22:25:35 · 12 answers · asked by silent_assualt88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is called verbal abuse. Dump the biatch and seek help. She is really screwing with your mind and playing you like a piano concerto. You are really whacked out of your skull to take this sh*it from her as well.
2006-12-17 22:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have some issues here w her. Looks like that she is insecure, but accusing you of having an affair and go partying makes her looks very immature too.
Listen to me: Either go for counselling-both of you- or bring her out over nice dinner and wine. Get relax and in the mood, and talk it over w her. Everything. Tell her that you really want to work it out; but you wont take all the mood/love swings and all the crap about you have an affair and it makes her rite to go parties like mad.
Make some compromise and be honest w her..and tell her to do it to you too. Then tell her that you really love her.
All the best
2006-12-18 06:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have any idea what she really wants and it's not being fair to you at all. I'm sorry but the woman defiantly sounds very confused. Wanting you then not wanting you. And she's defiantly not trying to work this marriage out with you at all. I"m sorry but I'd be questioning her on if she's being faithful to you. I think to be honest you could do a lot better. I'd either see a counselor together or see a lawyer and get on with you life. good luck to you. ;o)
2006-12-18 06:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell her to stop playing with your head full stop
sorry to hear your having such a horrid time but it looks like she is playing with your mind find your self some one for you this woman sounds like she needs help
good luck
respect
shaz
2006-12-18 09:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better and someone who doesnt play mind games. Let her run wild and dont let her think she has caught you in her termoil. Play it straight and live your life. Sometimes we dont know what we got til we lose it and then we want it back that much more.
2006-12-18 06:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to get her some counseling she may need to be put on some meds to stabilize her mood swings. Good luck.
2006-12-18 07:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married?It sounds like a dating situation,not a marraige..
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2006-12-18 07:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this woman here is damn indecisive, she's just not speaking her heart out. Just ignore her for awhile, she will come back to you when she's not hearing from you. It feels as if she's testing you.
2006-12-18 06:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u marreid on line or smth? marry for real in this case
2006-12-18 06:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋