I'am very shy to ask her,can some one help me. she is my friend.
2006-12-17 21:30:53 · 10 answers · asked by jijin o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi
There is no easy way to do this. You will have to ask her. But don't just go and blurt it out.
I don't know how close you are as friends, but presumably you wouldn't want to risk your friendship if she says no. You said she's your friend, then I guess she would at least have an idea....
So explain to her that you have feelings for her and whatever her answer is, you would still want her to be your friend. Give her time to think over it, and keep it cool during that time...
If she is a sincere person, she would tell you straightaway how she feels, or maybe take a couple of days.
But if she starts behaving hysterically and says stuff like, oh I only thought of you as a friend, why did you say this and blah blah...
then she is probably not worth wasting your time on...
Remember.... if you love someone, set them free.
If they come back to you, they were yours,
If not, they never were....
Good luck :)
2006-12-18 06:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by cool_cancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r so shy 2 ask, write it down in a piece of paper & hand it over 2 her,sorry, pass it to her throu' ur trusted frend. Any how she'll reject u coz' gals luv bold guys not shy guys
So dude b bold enough 2 express urself. U r not a gal 2 twirl ur hair
2006-12-21 05:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by ur friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the level of possesiveness by making her feel jealous, ignore her alil and give others a bit more priority, and if she feels her life is upset bcoz of this, u'll come to know by her expressions, and than bang on with the wordswatever u feel, u'll end up nowhere with this hitch!, so atleast try, than to just think, coz in the end u'll not get anything, and she will get married to someone else makin u justa best man ....
2006-12-18 05:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kinshuk M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey dude,
Girls are not come to you and say that I love you or like you. Its the guys who need to take a first step ahead of girls.
But beleive me just do it as soon as possible till its too late. Dont think that by saying that you love her makes her unhappy or annoyed. thats the guilt or the fear stops from saying anything to your friend to whom you like as a love one.
This is also happens to me i also like a girl but her friend ship as a friend always stop me to say anything to her about my feeling. But what happen at last she left me and go to other station where she engaged by her parents to some other guy.
So do the needful at the earliest.
2006-12-18 06:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rohit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's quite tricky considering that you are friends. anyway you can possibly get a friend to do some research and add a word for, coz the last thing that you would want is to spoil your existing friendship. be careful but be honest and true to yourself.
2006-12-18 05:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not love you but she loves your presence, especially when you are shy. If you ask, and if she is silent, there are two meanings - one is she is ready to love and 2nd is 'if repeated, she would take proper action. Go and ask her now itself, she would love. But tell me how ugly looking she is?
2006-12-18 05:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Big Avatar 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you suspect her if you love her . and if really loves you then ask her she will not lie
2006-12-18 05:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any way, she will put you into trobled waters and giggle
2006-12-18 05:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get drunk it takes the shyness away and tell her lol :)
2006-12-18 05:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by sweety4live2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her directly
2006-12-18 14:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋