i am married fortunately i got physically contants with another girl. same time i dont want leave my wife and children but i want that girl also. My wife is good i like her very much. What wrong with me. I know that i am doing wrong. how can i come out of this .
2006-12-17 21:14:03 · 3 answers · asked by glrads r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Physical contact? As in a brush of the shoulder or something more serious? If it is anything more than 'a brush of the shoulder', what you did is considered cheating. We cannot avoid having lust for another person, but at the same time, we have to do the best that we can to avoid giving into that temptation. What you experience now is just a sense of infatuation, which will eventually pass. Yet what you have with your wife and your children, that is parmanent. It takes years to build and I hate to see it go away.
Take your time to make your decision, but in the end know that true love is hard to find and hard to come by, lusts come every now and again but go away after awhile. I'd hang on to my wife if I was put into your situation.
Good luck with it!
2006-12-17 23:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Aleckii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing the other girl and commit to your wife totally.
2006-12-18 14:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have nothing wrong , join Islam , in islam a man can have 4 wives at a time, if u are capable of looking after all the four
2006-12-18 06:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋