ended up spilling so much over the kitchen floor! I instantly said to her, "I'm sorry. Are you angry with me". Do you know why I might have this behaviour?
2006-12-17 20:44:06 · 15 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
thats just who you are...
have you had a bad child hood - shouted at alot.
im like you, i often feel the need to say sorry, for anything i do, even if its not my fault. its comes out naturally.
Dont worry about it to much, im sure it will only get better with age.
2006-12-17 20:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by geminially 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are used to feeling unimportant or supressing your wishes in favour of other people's you will apologize when this is not appropriate. It is usually as a result of feeling undervalued as a child or young person. Take stock of how you feel about your family, are you apologizing for the spilt orange or for being there? Why are you concerned about someone being angry with you? Is someone in your family angry without good reason, if so then the problem is yours not theirs.
Take care, and Merry Christmas
2006-12-18 00:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by deee999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be 'angry' with anyone who used the name of 'Poopsy,' just as a matter of course ~ over any given reason I thought I could use.
You, I'm pretty sure, know exactly Why. It defines your role, it pins you into some submissive place, establishes your diminutive purpose in life ~ to be walked over and used ...and I suspect that this persona laps it up.
Well done. You got what you want and continue to do so.
Sash.
2006-12-17 22:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-17 20:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to get that when I used to go to church I used to meet angry people but I don't now because I no longer go
2006-12-17 20:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by ucanseethejoin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just sensitive girl....
and thats sweet, and means you worrie about others feelings too.But, be a little careful no one takes this...as a way to manipulate you.
This world is big and bad and very ugly~!
2006-12-17 20:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are too nervous & skeptical. Try doing yoga. Peace your mind from the fear of getting people scold. If you able to overcome that fear then your problem is solved.
2006-12-17 20:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Shr| 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a little insecure?
perhaps you have done something before to make someone cross at you and now when you do something similar you just expect the shouting?
2006-12-17 20:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are feeling a bit scared of the person?
2006-12-17 20:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Puma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello popsy,
dont hesitate urself to be the best.
when u feel shy u cant reach to the people on ur own.
u may be over sensitive i think.
stop doing so day by day...............
2006-12-17 20:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by sarayyu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋