My bestfriend and myself have realised in the last months that our feelings towards men have changed. Both of us have been played a bit and have never had a serious relationship. She told me that she thinks she is BiSexual and i don't know if i'm going the same way. Please help!
2006-12-17 20:28:25 · 17 answers · asked by Emily D 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
humans are one of the few species on the planet that have sex for more than just reproduction. we do it for fun!! so... when you look at it that way, there are no true sexual orientations. no bi.. no hetero... and no homosexuality. it's all just pure SEXUALITY!! so... if the two of you think it would be enjoyable to do things together, go for it. after all... you're only human!! ;)
2006-12-17 20:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by wrldzgr8stdad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad if that is how you feel. You cannot help who you fall in love with or who you develop sexual feelings toward. Just don't decide you are bi or gay because you have been played by men. There are tons of wonderful men out there that won't play you. You might just need to start looking in different places.
2006-12-18 04:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by bashnick 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
over ur life time yes u will find alot of guys who will mess with ur head and break ur heart , hunny their is nothing wrong with being bi ok
i my self have had alot of bad guy experiences and i am attracted to women i allways have been bt i have nevor been with another girl
i think that it is sexy.
bt as far as i see it finding the perfect woman is going to be just as hard as finding the perfect man u no so if u feel attracted to ur friend and she likes u then go for it
see what happens or go off men for a whiel its all good u can allways go back
if u look at a girl and think wow id really like to kiss her and touch her body then yes u have bi in u
dont forget nothing wrong with u
good luck sweety
2006-12-18 04:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad if you are bi for the wrong reasons. Don't be bi because you hate men or because you want to be like your best friend, you are not really bi if those are your reasons, you are just lying to yourself and someone is going to end up getting hurt.
You are only bi if you are sexually attracted to women as well as men.
2006-12-18 04:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, of course it's not bad! Many people will tell you that, but those who love you know that that's not true. It's not very smart to walk around shouting it out to the world, because the world we live in is pretty stupid that way, but yeah, it's not bad LOL
2006-12-18 04:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own oppinon on this subject, but I will tell you its really your decison of what you want to do. It might be a temporary phase or a permanent felling. No one but yourself can tell you if you are straight bi, or lesbian its all up to you.
2006-12-18 05:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Katy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with that? nuthing. so what if your bi.
u can't change your self to just like men u will always like both.
but u know what if u or your friend is going through puberty it is normal to be attracted to people close to u.
2006-12-18 04:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by taytaymm28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get in something like that if you like men. It is all about sex that;s all.Don't do something you will be sorry for later on,and you will be sorry for it,I no because I did it .I wish to GOD I could take it all back I'm so embarrass that my husband will find out.
2006-12-18 04:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Inquisitive minds want to know. you'll never really know till you try.
Talk to your friend and if she agrees... try it with her. Explore, and no it's not wrong if that's how you feel. Love yourself no matter what!
2006-12-18 04:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by gord's360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being bisexual.
2006-12-18 04:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mosaic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋