I wonder if someone might be able to explain, that wherever I work or go even, I feel I'm "got at".

Question

I don't know why this is. I've sat and thought hard about it, but I just feel that way. Does anyone know why I may be like this?

Well, I feel always put upon, edgy, and generally feel as it people are out there to trip me up, get at me, that people are out to hurt me.

Answer 1

It's a feeling of insecurity on your part towards others that maybe brought about by a bad experience you encountered in the past...You have to loosen up a bit and divert your thinking into something positive and boost up your self confidence by not being too self conscious. Just relax !!!

Answer 2

It honestly sounds from your explanation like you're really angry about something specific but won't acknowledge it to yourself for some reason. For instance, if you're in some kind of a situation where you feel trapped or taken advantage of or can't express how you feel about something, it can spill over into all areas of your life. This can be an issue of personal freedom and honesty. If you don't feel like you can express past hurts or have been silenced about something that affected you in your past, you're not able to be honest about them and your feelings will affect how you see the world around you.

Answer 3

You go to eliminate your paraoid syndrome. Any thinking or emotion will rebound to you. So, have a good attitude toward life and humanity in general.

Answer 4

that's because you have self confidence which is very good. but be careful that the increase in your self confidence may lead to egoism, which is not good in a person

Answer 5

"got at" what?

explain the situation in detail..........................hope then we can understand n make u understand.