I am 15 years, i hate love, because all my class mates at school abuse it throughly. So i hate it. But now i like ( maybe love) a girl.
Should i say to her the truth or to my mother. The negative points are that the girl is my mother's freind's daughter. Please help me
2006-12-17 20:17:39 · 13 answers · asked by palindrome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your classmates abuse 'love', don't hate love, just hate what they do with it. Lots of people *do* love eachother, and do not abuse it... so be one of them. Tell the girl you like her, do what you think is right and not whatever it is your classmates are doing. Good luck!
2006-12-17 20:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sheriam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl out on a date. Don't tell her you love her because that will just scare her off and make you look silly. If you start dating and find that the two of you really care for each other and don't want to date anyone else, then you can tell her you love her. You are right about so many kids abusing love. It amazes me that the girls I work with will start dating a guy and within a week they are telling each other "I love you." It is over-used and under appreciated.
It might be kind of nice to talk to your mom about it, too. I had a bf once that talked to his mom about his feelings for me. I always thought that was so sweet and I really appreciated that he and his mom were so close that he could open up to her.
2006-12-17 20:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I hope you don't completely give up on because you are young and have a lot of life to live still.
If you are comfortable talking to your mom about it, go for it. If you know that she's not going to tell anyone else then talk to her about it. Sometimes talking can help you decide what course of action you will take. If you tell the girl, and she agrees, then great. If you tell her and she doesn't agree, well you are young and will meet many more people.
Good luck and I hope it all works out for you!
2006-12-17 20:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by kayle_rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you tell this girl or any girl for that matter that you love them you should be 100% positive that you do...If you have to say to your self i think i love her..than you don't..you need to be postive, no second guessing it. but tell her how you feel in the means that you have strong feelings for her and you care alot about her....but ya people do take "love" way to lightly and the do abuse that. Lots of people get hurt when the word love is used and the person doesn't mean it..ya it's just a word..but it's a very strong word. be 100% before telling someone you love them.
2006-12-17 20:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by ebabygurlmlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 10:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont chose your likes and dislikes because of some pressure....live the way u are and just love those who u think ur heart tells u to
2006-12-17 20:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by sweety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 15 do whatever you feel is right, but dont stress it to much.
2006-12-17 20:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by his angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe in a couple of years, things will change...15 sounds young...but maybe it's not necessary to tell your mom
2006-12-17 22:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, but remenber, you are only 15, and there's a long way ahead of you, don't stress it out:)
2006-12-17 20:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by ♀★sMiLe☆♀ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start first 2 show Ur mother and Ur lover Ur feelings !
And don't say " MAMA i luv her " ! u know what i mean !!!
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2006-12-17 20:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Wild R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋