i am doubting if I should go with my silent side or ti my outgoing side.... I dont know where to fit in.... I just want to be happy.... help....
2006-12-17 19:41:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Multiple personalities are fun, they make you unpredictable. You should be able to decide for yourself who you want to be.
2006-12-17 19:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are confusing behavior with personality. You can change your behavior but not your personality.
If you are warm, friendly, helpful -- that's your personality whether you talk to some snooty complaining fault-finding hard-to-please person or decide to ignore him. Talking to someone or ignoring someone is more about behavior. If you talk nineteen to a dozen with every tom dick and harry, you need to learn about personal boundaries and having "real" friends.
If you talk more with your friends than utter strangers, it's about a choice to speak or not to speak. If everyone confided in everyone else, more people will take advantage of someone's weakness and there would be more chaos. Some people are to be trusted others are not. Knowing whom to trust is part of growing up.
2006-12-17 20:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by WaterStrider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A balanced, optimistic personality is the best. Don't go to the extremes.
2006-12-17 19:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the people. If you can switch at the right time, you'll get in anyone's pants.
2006-12-17 20:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by Buchyex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try which one makes you happier and just be yourself
2006-12-17 20:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be both...
2006-12-17 19:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by aviatrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋