Confused about ovulation date.... Sombody please help?

Question

I am a mother, last time i dint have to take care of any thing coz we had sex everyday, like that i got pregnant, now i am married for 4 yrs and we have sex once or twice a week, coz my husband is a bit busy setting up his business, and i want to have a baby.
In september i got my periods on 4th or 5th, october 8th, november on 11th, and december on the 15th, these are all the 1st days of my periods, usually my periods stays for a week, now i want to know when is my ovulation supposed to be, i mean it is mostly a 35 or 36 days cycle if i am not wrong , so to conceive when should we make love

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Ask in your family planning clinic or at your doctors for temperature charts and a fertility thermometer. Take your temperature every morning before you get out of bed or eat or drink anything and measure it on the chart. The fertility thermometer measures much smaller changes of temperature than an ordinary one.

Your body temperature will vary daily but just before you ovulate it will drop slightly then spike on the day of ovulation. After 2 or 3 months you should see a pattern. This will help you predict the precise day of ovulation. Once you have an idea you can use an ovulation prediction kit, available at the chemist to accurate predict the most effective time to have sex.

Been there, done that, got the babies, Good luck

Answer 3

You ovulate between 12-16 days before your next period.

To find out exactly when this is take your temp. every morning when you wake up. It will rise when you ovulate and will stay higher until your next period. Once released your egg remains viable for fertilisation for just 12-24 hours.

Also keep an eye on your mucus.It become stretchy like egg white as you approach ovulation. Sperm can survive for up to 5 days in this more fertile mucus.

It is recommended that you have intercourse every other day during the week before you ovulate and then for a day or two after.

Make sure you are taking pre-natal vitamins and good luck!

Answer 4

The majority of women ovulate 14 days before their next period. So, the complications arise in calculating an average possible ovulation date if you have cycles that aren't exact each month ... which is most of us! I would suggest that you use your shortest and longest cycles and calculate the earliest and latest possible ovulation dates by counting back 14 days from each. Use a year's worth of cycle lengths if you have them. Then add 5 days in front of the soonest possible Ov. date and add 2 to the rear of the longest possible Ov. date and you've got your most reliable personal fertile window. Of course, in future, the best thing to do to ensure accuracy would be to chart your BBTs at fertilityfriend (or a similar website) which can show you actual ovulation dates, not just computated probability. Good luck!

Answer 5

Typically, ovulation occurs 14 days before you start your period. However, it is possible to ovulate earlier or later in your cycle. If you have a 35 day menstrual cycle I would say you should have sex on days 19-24. Good Luck!

Answer 6

The generic answer is to count. 10 days after your period started, have sex. Then have sex on days 12, 14, 16, and 18. That would cover ovulation for the vast majority of women. Otherwise, sex everyother day would work too. Everyday doesn't give his sperm as good a chance to build up.

Answer 7

U should get one of those Basal Body Temperature Thermometers!

Answer 8

This is the most easiest way to keep up with your cycle and fertile/ovulation dates.

Go to http://www.mymonthlycycles.com and put in your period info and it will calculate when you will be fertile, ovulating and when you are going to start your period. It is a great and helpful free site to use.

How to get Pregnant Faster – Top Ten Tips

1. Have sex three times a week.

Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.

2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.

3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).

Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.

5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.

Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.

7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.

8. Have enjoyable sex.

Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.

9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.

The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.

10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.
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Good luck