One of my male friends has been seeing this girl for about 5 months now and she has a major attitude problem and i really don't care for her at all, but for the sake of my friend, i try to tolerate her. She is always yelling at him in front of us and calling him names. I asked him one time why does he take that from her? And his answer to me was, "Look at her, she's gorgeous and she has a nice body". And i said What? You put up with all that crap just because she looks good? And he just laughed and nodded his head yes. Well, the other night we were all together at another friends house and he was joking around with her and she slapped him right in the face in front of everyone. She got angry over virtually nothing, and then as she was walking away, she turned around and kicked him right in the shin very hard. All he did was joke about her not being close enough to the gas pump to put gas in her car and she snapped. I think he should leave this nut alone. Do you agree? Trouble ahead!
2006-12-17 18:35:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They 'both' need help!!
He needs a major 'brain overhaul' for even wanting to be with her.
She's a real nut, and I'm sure she's well aware of the control
she has over your friend, and uses it to 'great' advantage.
What really concerns me is, even though it's not often that women abuse men, it does happen and thats exactly what she is doing to your friend.
I am curious as to how he reacted when she assaulted him like that!
If a man did that to a woman he'd get thrown in jail, and she would be thrown in jail if he pressed charges, especially with all
the witnesses that saw what happened.
HE HAS GOT TO DUMP HER!!!
She's a ticking time-bomb thats going to explode in his face one of these days.
2006-12-17 19:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he should leave, but there is really nothing you can do other than talk to him and be there for him. I've learned from experience that you have to let people make their own mistakes and don't get to caught up in the middle because it seems to always get turned around on you and you will look like the bad guy. I know he's your friend, but trust me, if you start dogging her to much he may turn against you and get even closer to her. I agree with you, his reason for taking abuse is absurd! Just because someone looks good that means that they have the right to hit you? That's a crock! This guy can't see the forrest for the trees, but he will one day when she seriously hurts him. Good luck!
2006-12-17 18:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Pancho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alrite ur gunna ought to take the probability of loosing that comradeship besides the indisputable fact that the satisfied area is in many circumstances a guy will comprehend what a chum you're and hell get over her and be your homie back so threat it cuzz its not about you its about him believe me threat pay off basically stay helpful and dont free desire
2016-11-30 22:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to you to save him from her. He has to do that himself. He needs to decide that her looks are not worth the way she treats him. I agree that she's an abusive girlfriend, but he is probably not in any real danger (aside from an occasional bruise) and if he wants to stay with her, that is his choice.
He probably likes being abused, but won't admit it. Some men are like that.
2006-12-17 18:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to grow a bigger pair of navy beans and dump her
2006-12-17 18:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he should leave. he will once he's tired of her
2006-12-17 18:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's his choice.. until he asks your help :)
2006-12-17 18:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Deema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋