2006-12-17 17:20:47 · 24 answers · asked by booboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well ask him if he really loves you; you could have a 3some with another guy and him
2006-12-17 17:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by williamb10@verizon.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he does love you. He might love you even more if he knows that you are happy and trying to please him. You'll have him eating out of your hands.
Girl, you better act like you know. And if you don't know, find out. Find out fast.
Don't be ashamed in trying to please your husband. Most times it makes your relationship better.
Well, married couples do have moral obligations in pleasing their spouses. That's something that you and him need to sit down and discuss. You can't treat a married relationship the same way you treat a single relationship. If you agree to bring another person in your bedroom, "you" must set your boundaries to make sure these activities don't continue beyond your bedroom or without your consent. Stranger things can occur if these sexual delights get out of control. Other than that, it's perfectly normal. Enjoy!
On the other hand, if you don't feel comfortable acting out this fantasy, talk to your husband and try to come up with something you will feel comfortable in trying. Guys are usually down with anything that doesn't consist of another man with their wife. Then again you never know.
2006-12-17 17:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally no
it basically the have my cake and eat it too philosophy
try it this way
ask him if you can have a 3 way with 2 men
98% of the married guys will flat out say no
as the though of another man having sex with his wife drives them insane with jealousy
the deep seated fear is that she MIGHT like it and PREFER the other lover and leave him for the OTHER guy ( AKA Sancho )
so the love part is not there
it's a fantasy issue and not a love issue
but that the BS excuse they use to convince you to go along
after all HE gets what he wants.... but what do you get?
that's why swinging is best left to unmarried and uncommitted couples where there is no possesiveness
2006-12-17 17:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No he does not love you and, or even himself. I personally know of a couple where the husband told his wife to go down on another guy and she did it because he told her too, and not to mention the fact her told her he would love her even more than what he does now. Their marriage ended a short time later. It is not every man's dream; only if he's stupid.
Smart wives say no thanks.
2006-12-18 04:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not good. I would never have a 3some with my wife. NO WAY. I would with a couple of sluts if I was not married though. NOT with somebody I loved.
2006-12-17 17:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex and love are two different things, I don't mind sharing my man as long as I know it's only a sexual thing, if I noticed he started getting feeling forher it would crush me. And yes, your hubby can still love you and want a 3some at the same time. On the same token he shouldnt have any qualms about you wanting a 3some with 2 men. (lots of fun there).
2006-12-17 17:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I use to think sex was sex love was love, but tried the swinging thing husband blames me says i took it to an emotional level, well I say if he loves you so much why would he want to bring anyone else in or see you with anyone else. I don't think it works because, seeing your partner with someone else is hard to handle. Plus husbands can set some rules for you and do as they please. Good luck. Plus anytime you do something like that you are playing with fire, what if he likes it with this girl so much he wants to keep doing it. Things like that happen because we are human.
2006-12-18 00:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good husband and wife respect their vows,, they stand together and promise to love one another... not another man nor another woman exist. though sex is a part of marriage and both need to satisfy the needs and love.
we have choice to make, choose to be a part of sin or choose to protect our family from getting into,, and think about your family.
A good marriage protect their family, respect their vows, and love one another,
we will fail into test about sex in reality ,,but to fall into temptation and sin? it is hard to regain respect and success to bring back the love again,
How many get divorce because of cheating, immorality, denial, guilt. etc? this is the fact that we make bad choices.
it is not a selfish thing to disapprove his wish, he might just looking for fantasy and testing you? As some men differs from women, could you deal with it physically and doesn;t affect you emotionally,,then you have the answer.
2006-12-17 17:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It’s probably the number one male fantasy. It also ranks pretty high on the list of a lot of female fantasies. Acting on it though is a totally different matter. Most people (not all), actually given the chance, would choose not to.
2006-12-17 17:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is WRONG! It is NOT every man's dream. If a man wants this, he should never get married in the first place! I am so sick of women putting up with husband's who wants a threesome. They want to have their cake and eat it too!
2006-12-17 17:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋