sages to another guy saying she wanted him and loves him what should i do
2006-12-17 16:58:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop snooping in her phone
2006-12-17 17:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Dizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her do her own thing. Who knows what is really going on, if it is serious or not, and even if you asked, who knows if you would get an honest answer. And right now, you have no right to ask really, since she is single. She's allowed to date whomever she wants, and if you say something about it, you will just look jealous and possessive - something you probably don't want to look like if you are trying to get her back. Just let it be - and continue trying to win her back if you want her. You have competition, so what. I'll bet you had competition when you first went out with her as well. Be sweet, and try to figure out what went wrong in the first place and fix it. This other guy is no concern of yours. Though I would suggest that you also date around, even if just for fun.
2006-12-18 01:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cant tell you what to do , But i can tell you this , when people are seperated we get lonely and insecure, sometimes the friend takes on a new roll as a life preserver and we think weare in love because there is no stress or fighting and he is saying all the right things and doing all the things our mate used to do. You can take it as a wake up call or a death nell. If you two are truley in love then try to work it out, compassion , forgivness and understanding with responsibility is the only way to work it out
2006-12-18 01:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your wife have the understanding that even though you are separated, you're trying to work things out.
You looked at her text message professing her love for some other guy.
Sounds to me like your wife doesn't know what she wants. I would consider backing away until she gets things figured out. And even then, I'm not sure your relationship with her is worth the effort.
Back away and take time to figure out what is really going on. Once you know what's up, you'll know what to do.
Good luck.
2006-12-18 02:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and tell her where to go. She is not being honest with you. She shouldn't be letting you think the two of you are going to work things out, and at the same time she's texting another man. Wake up, it's over. Move on.
2006-12-18 01:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take this as a good sign she is seeing someone else right now. maybe she is covering all her bases, just in case it does'nt work with you, she has this guy to fall back on?..or visa versa?..or, that she does'nt want to hurt you, so, going thru the motions of pretneding to try to get back together..but has someone else also. You need to have a talk with her..she could'nt of been trying to hide this person from you very well if she left her texts on the cell.
2006-12-18 01:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her very calmly about it. You might have just found some very important information that might prevent you from making a very big mistake.
2006-12-18 01:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by The Pope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it, see what she wants, this is not the time to be quiet about your relationship with her, She needs to be honest and upfront with the two of you.
2006-12-18 01:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. She obviously is NOT trying as hard as you are to work it out.
2006-12-18 01:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to work it out anymore
2006-12-18 01:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋